Hey guys i have this huge crush on this girl at work, I know this a wussy thing and i need some advice, see but there is huge problem I tried sarging her a while ago about 5 months ago and she had boyfriend but she's single now, way before i knew about PUAs and sarging and i made myself sound and look like AFC on my first attempt. ever since that i haven't talked to her. OKAY, here the question, So how do i approach her again without making myself look like an AFC?Were going to work together on Thursday. two days from now She is the Safety council for our center at UPS.Basically what I'm going to do with her is just answer a few question for the safety on our center. Like how to grab/lift/place a package and avoiding injuries and shit like that. I know that i shouldn't let her looks get to me, But sometimes i feel like my intuitions are telling me that she's attracted to me.Like I'm getting the message she is sending me, She walks by me a lot trying to bump into me this happen about fucking 15 times, always around my proximity and I'm noticing this constantly. Just today i was going to the candy machine and i see her smiling (IOI?). But i act like i don't notice and after that i bought my drink and snack i headed outside to chill for my break and i see her again around my proximity like mystery describe(IOI?)again i ignore her, Is that a sign of IOI?

I need some input from you guys, Tell me what negs are good to use on this type HB9, I remember hearing that HB9 require a lot negging from stlyes, Is this true?I'm already trying to get the ready to get to talk to her on thursday, I just need some openers, advice or some type of inputs from you guys so i can at least #Close on her? I'm open to all suggesting, Thank you

Ok I am not going to tell you how to pick up on here since I don't know your character. But if you want to send out courtship signals that show you are approachable. Smile with raised eye brows. Show open palms around her. Keep your hands out of your pockets. This is to show you notice and welcome her to approach you, from there she will do things to show you that you are welcome to approach. Study her body language.

Does she look down? This is a form of submission, welcoming.
Which way is her body leaning?
Are her arms crossed?
Does she have a slightly higher then normal blink rate(more then one every 3 seconds)?
Does she have raised eye brows(also a from of submission)?
Is she preening her Hair?
Are there hand movement bringing attention to face?
Are her eyes dilated(are her pupils big)?
If you are standing which way are her feet pointing(towards you is good)? Watch the corners of her lips, do they go down(bad), or up?
Does she bite her lip? Do not confuse with tight lips which is bad.
Does she posture(push breasts up), sitting with crossed legs(good when leaning toward you)?
Does she Tilt her head? Exposure to her neck.
Does she copy your posture, movements?
Shoulder shrug.
Droopy jaw, is subconscious and difficult to control.

Now if you see her give you 3 of these she is definitely interested. This will also tell you if she is comfortable around you and when you should change the conversation. If she crosses her arms shift the conversation towards her or to something she has more passion for. If the corner of her lips go down change it up. When you notice more and more of these things elevate slightly being careful not to overstep your bounds until she is very comfortable with you.

Now I don't know much about negging, but what I do know is that if you send the right body language in the right order while stimulating her through kino and vocal tone, and by paying close attention to their body language you will understand a lot about them and where they stand with you or the conversation/situation. In the beginning it doesn't necessarily matter what you say so much as how you say it and by paying attention you can understand where they are emotionally and when you should elevate the intimacy or change the situation or just end it.

Basically show her you are welcoming and safe to approach. Not showing you notice her will only make her give up on you. Show some interest, but don't over do it obviously. Hi is the best opener. Share a visual experience, talk about something you can both see, if she wants to talk she will. Comment on something interesting, a funny eye on a co-worker or something visually funny or interesting.

I'm no scientist, but it sounds like most of the work you'll have attracting this woman is already done for you. From what you're saying alone (assuming you're right), it sounds like she's trying to go kino on you already. Most of the attraction phase is done for you, which can be the most uncomfortable for some guys. Just read up on some material and get comfortable, but don't think about it too much, it's likely to ruin your game. If she likes you already, then you just have to make sure you don't F yourself over by over thinking and freakin' yourself out. If you aren't exageratting in your post, this shouldn't be as hard as you think.