First things first I got this girls number off Facebook after 15 minutes of talk. I knew her through my brother and we went to the same high school. I haven't met her in person but i've told her I think shes interesting and that she should come out.

Basically to get the number I said we should go out for some pool. She replied enthusiastically with a yes but immediately said she had to go to do some revision for upcoming exams. So I got her number and she said I should text her with my name so she knows it's me.

Even though I have seeded a date and an activity there is no exact date. It's just 'Will you come out over summer?' sort of thing. Now she hasn't text me back when I text me her name and I don't really expect her to. It was hard work to get this date as she is a pretty attractive girl who probably gets pestered 100x a day by AFCs.

If anyone is good at ensuring the date actually happens then I would love some advice. I'm great at getting numbers but sometimes a girl will flake even if a date has been seeded.

What steps should I take to ensure I'll be playing pool with this girl in a few weeks time?

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This is my text game (well, not 100% my but i got it to my preference). I just text to entertain myself. Usually, I get hint about girls asking me to hang out. I just ignore it and continue. Then in evening he same night, I say "Hey I am doing xxxxxx, come hang out."

Basically, don't plan out things way to early. Chances are too high that she will change her mind. Of course if she is really into you, you can plan things out. But in your situation, she aint.


I suggest you take a step back and text and have fun with her, don't plan on asking her out or anything. Then, ask her out after there is enough attraction and make it seem random. Don't plan it out to early.

Okay well she just text me with a wink to say she's spoken to my brother. My plan is to ring her when she's finished her exams and tease her and go for the official date then.
Does anyone have any better suggestions?

It's just i'm not the texting type. I don't want to text a girl 24/7.

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I don't even need directions from you, but I'm gonna get an erection from you.

Ouch gave good advice.


you dont need to text 24/7 . but just remember what your goal is.

work backwards from your goal.

goal is to fuck her. how are you gona do that? well you need to be in an isolated place, preferrably on a bed, and alone with her, AND you need her to want to have sex with you.

how you gona do that? well you need to seduce her, play with her, take her out, make her laught, build comfort and attraction, make her pussy wet , make her fantasize about you.

how you gona do that? well you u need to set yourself up as the prize, not be needy, be SUPER COOL, date other women, be a sex magnet, make her feel a range of emotions from jealousy to love.

how you gona do that? well you need to portray this vibe thru whichever method you choose. i like text, because text is the most basic, rawest, non invasive form of communication these days. you may not like it. but the principle is the same, whether on facebook, text, or in person.

so fucking text her, amuse yourself, escalate on her.
i like telling the girl that I want to see them in a thong. basically shownig alot of INTENT without being NEEDY. so that means, you let her know you want to fuck her, but you DONT ASK HER OUT.

this will cause her to be flabbergasted by your behaviour, and she will wonder why you arent/havnet asked her out. so much to the point that she will ask YOU out, or hint at it