I,ve finally broke though my AA and got on with her until :
I seen the checkout girl that am trying to get with , with a guy
today. and I dont know if I should stick with it and try and get on her "fuck when
I'm single " list or just move on. I actually see her as girlfreind material so dont want to let her pass me by.

cause this girls so close to home I really wanted to keep things going we got on real well but no number close.

my mission this week was to get a 10 min conversation going with her so I'm looking at this as a big bump in the road.

I'd like some good advice
and tips on avoiding falling into freindzone?
thanks for reading

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I think that every successful man should have 3 women at his funeral. One that's crying, one that's smiling and one that's buying things on her laptop with his will.

This is a very crucial time for you. I can sense you're a little frustrated and discouraged from this "other guy" sighting. But I think this this would be a great opportunity for you to put all of your emotions aside and bust through ( lol no pun intended) Now I'm not really sure what you mean by when you said you saw her with a guy.. was she making out with this guy? talking to this guy? all cuddled close with him? If it's a situation where they were just talking or something then fuck it man, CONTINUE TO RUN YOUR GAME. He could very well be trying to game her too, but you need to get in state and beat him to it ( if that really is the case). My number one tactic for not falling into the friend zone is to amp up my physical game. I dont tell her im attracted to her, I SHOW HER. Also make sure you build rapport and remain cocky funny.

Next: you NEED some kind of close man. I dont really know how many times you've spoken to her but its time to seal the deal. Put all of your fears and insecurities aside for a moment and realize that this is a woman that you desire; and as a man you will do what you have to do to get her.

And lets say, worst case scenario, you don't get her for whatever reason. Walk away stronger knowing that you put your best foot forth.

Your life is waiting, and so is she

good luck

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beat me up, and ill fight right back

and speed up the process.

i get the impression you've talked several times and this girl has been your target for awhile. no number close yet?

are you going for the k-close within a year? lol

this other guy probably just moved faster. i would probably have asked her out the first or second time we talked, or you risk being put into the creep category.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

no .. lets wait 5 years until she gets married and is raising 2 children.... ring the doorbell and stick your tongue in there lol

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well to answer ur question I seen her with her arm round him so I guess there seeing each other.

I'm still gonna try hold a 10 min conversation with her 2moro, see how things go
I'm gonna try to definitly speed things up.

its just a little hard getting kino going if shes working haha

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I think that every successful man should have 3 women at his funeral. One that's crying, one that's smiling and one that's buying things on her laptop with his will.