so ive been workin on it, and practicing everytime i go out, i can get numbers of who i want, problem is i have yet to bring them home the night of us meeting which sucks. second is ill text them and well be textin for a few days but it dies out, they are too busy or they lose the spark we had when we met so i cant kick it with them again... so is it my texting game? or lack of calling? or w/e... its driving me nuts, any pointers? i would appreciate it guys

Don't have that much experience in this field myself.
But from what I learned so far, you might have a problem building a so called timebridge.

Are you just saying "I'll call you sometime" when asking for her number?

The theory says, it's better to create a plan why you two should meet again. Like a party with your friends you are organizing (if she seems like a party girl) or anything.

Then call her. I personally hate text msgs. No voice, no tonality, no eye contact, no body language. I suck at it royally. Just call her.

If she refuses. Call her the other week. Then other week and so one, until she stops answering your phone calls completely, or tells you not to call her ever again.

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