Long time lurker of the forums and it's a great community. I appreciate all of the interested material. Went through a break up with a chick that turned me into the weakest AFC ever. That's not what I'm here to talk about. Anyways, I have a disabling skin disease known as Hidradenitis suppurativa. I was born with it and never really tried to fight it, until now. I'm making appointments with different doctors and trying different things to fight this cure less disease. My question is, is there any point in entering the game and continuing soaking up material with my current situation? Can females be molded into accepting something like this or will I always have to hide something that I can not control? Does anyone in this community have any diseases that can relate? I could sure use some advice because right now I feel like there is no point. Maybe it's the fever.

Hey man sorry to hear about the break up. I feel any man can attract girls with their personaility. Think about it, if you were a rockstar and lived in a mansion and had your friends over and a whole bunch of hot girls, it would be the last of your worries.

One of David Deanglos interviews, he interviews a guy who is like 2'11" and he does good with girls. Women are attracted to men's personalities and their attitudes. The rest is just details.

Getting over a break up can take some time. But don't let it swallow you up. Keep a journal, exersize, eat right, sleep enough and try to find happiness.

You can't control that you have Hidradenitis suppurativa, but you can control that axtions you take from here. While you may see it as a weakness now, you can turn it in to an opportunity to prove to other guys that nothing can hold you back.

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a simple superficial answer: make up

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While I spent 3 or so months trying to get back with this girl, as it was my fault because like I said I turned into an extreme AFC, I am no longer trying to get her back. I wasted 1.5 years of my life on her to have her just run off. That isn't what the post was about. I am tired of hiding behind this disease and I was trying to see if there was anyone out there who can relate to my problem.

Absolutely!

You've had a girlfriend before, so what makes you think you can't do it again? There's so much great information out here. You're only as attractive as you believe you are.

I have a buddy who people probably wouldn't think is the best looking from the exterior. He's got poor skin, big nose, overweight, short, but his personality is money. He has the ability to make people laugh and he's just one of those people that everyone wants to be around. Anyway, he has a smokin hot girlfriend.

The sky is the limit my friend. Never understimate the power of a great personality.

While I can't relate personally, I hope you can have the courage to face your fears and play the field again. I think you'll surprise yourself if you really set your mind to it. Remember, every single person has been rejected before. Do not let it discourage you

Great Post 2, we all have insecurities. Its a matter if they control you, or you don't give sh*t and live an awesome life anyway

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I'm actually a good looking guy. I think the fear I have is for them to see my disease and then run away. The disease has gotten worse over the past two years thus my confidence is down. My back and ass look horrible and there's nothing I can do about it except be a lab rat to doctors everywhere until a cure is found.

I have a friend who had the worst case of acne I didn't even know possible. It covered his whole body. It was always pussing and he had a lot of scars from it. But he was such an awesome guy it didn't slow him down. He got with such hot girls all the time.

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Actually Sir you are in luck that I have come across your post because I know how to cure your cureless disease.

To do so though, you will need alot of discipline and alot of mental strength. but in the outcome, it will increase your ability with women, so use that as the carrot in front of the horse.

The answer however, is radical. its called the raw food diet. You eat only fruits and raw leafy greens. you cook nothing you eat, and stay away from vegetables, unless you like them(vegetables are fine and good for you but the kale, collards and spinach are most powerful, focus on those). But you have to eat alot of fruit per day about 3000 calories worth.

But you can eat no cooked food, no meat, no animal products, no bread or pasta. humans arent meant to digest these foods and they cause disease. In your case, you are hyper sensitive to these foods and your bodys way of dealing with them is to eject the toxins through the skin. Life isnt fair, and some blood types are worse off than others.

doctors are only going to give you pills that will destroy your liver over time and only treat the symptoms of your issues, not the underlying cause (your diet).

watch these two videos before you decide you cant do it, and of course check out both channels

"healing chronic skin condition"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JALKe-O1 ... ideo_title

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l8rFpi3Y2YY

Fuck. Forget when someone says shit like "Makeup"
or have a response which focuses strictly on making you look better.

This isnt about looks, guys. No matter what it is, if your game is tight you wont have problems.
Hell, you can even joke about it. If a girl comments on it/looks at it, respond with something confidently like "It doesnt bother me, because people are often mistaking me for a James Bond villain. That has its obvious perks"
(thats just an example off the top of my head lol. But act like its nothing and it wont matter, I promise lol. I cant stress that enough)

Watch this please
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=apEoEbyIEO8

This isn't about my looks! I can attract girls. This is about when I'm trying to Fclose and I feel so dam self conscious that I can't perform. Or when I think about gaming a chick that I get in a "way bother, I have shit that I have to hide" mode.

Thanks for the links. I've willing to try anything to try to fight. If all else fails I'll get the stupid surgery.