Hey well i have this girl that i just started talking to again on SPAM. We used to be really close friends but then she moved town and we kinda lost contact for a couple of years.

we started talking a couple of weeks ago and SPAM now about 3-4 times a week for anywhere from 1.5 hrs - 3 hrs each time.

Now i've not shown any really signs of intrest in her (thought i would kinda play the cat string theory, not too sure on exactly how it works ha), but shes a HB8 and i really like her personality. I get a couple of IOI's while i talked with her normally ie she laughs at my jokes, calls me cute ect

Last night i was talking to her and she said she loved it how we could just be mates, most of her guy mates end up liking her and it becomes uncomfortable for her.

she's leaving for a couple of days and can't SPAM so she said for me to txt her (we don't really text eachother much) and i said nah you txt me ha. and then she replied saying you'll never get girls by doing that.

so what do you guys make of this, should i txt her or just leave it. should i just stay mates with her, what can i do in this situation?

Love to hear what your guys comments and thoughts on all this would be.

the friend zone is a deep trap, hard to get out of! by her saying "you will never get girls like that" maybe she's hinting at something...women HAVE NO LOGIC, just hints...It seems like friend zone to me, I suggest leave the SPAM behind and meet face to face and watch for IOIs

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i think you've got a serious chance with this girl and it sounds like she really likes you. good job.

that was a huge hint when she said "you never get girls by doing that". ha! she was basically saying "here i am. come and get me."

she is willing, play your cards right, and you will be all up in that.

Read about three words of your post, but in 99% percent of these situations, you should stop being a pussy and go for it.

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Well i havent looked at this or a while so i thought i would update this.

she came around once and i KINOed lots and got a couple of IOI's but did not feel it was the right time to move in yet. the next time she came round we decided to go out for lunch and she came back to mine after, ended up K closing at mine ater some ticling wars ect. next time she came round she stayed the night. so ended algoods.

wtf

I think I've solved this. You kept her celibate by being online with you every free moment? Then when she was ready to explode you swooped?!

Also I'm pretty much sure that any girl that starts tickling you wants to be kissed.

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haha this a good or bad thing?

Nothing that works is bad if you're being honest with yourself.

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i guess haha. didn't quite work how you said it though

I'm sure. I kid. Good job, though.

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