So I still have my v card at age 19 soon to be 20. Read alot of mehow's stuff. There are three girls Im trying to game.

1st one, blew it. Met her at party, she was super drunken and kissed me when she left the parry. Doesn't remember. Waited until valentines day put flowers at her door, she found them. Ultra touched blah blah blah. I fucked up. Shoulda played it cool, like it was nothing big i do this for all the girls kinda thing.. Nope dived into LJBF zone head first. Especially since a marine 3 states away is now in a long distance relationship with her 3 days before i made a move. Of course im there for her 21st. I carry her around when she's too drunk and makes out with the back of my neck. too drunk doesn't remember. Anyway now that relationship is stuck. Idk what to do there.


2. LJBF talks to me about everything (typical LJBF) but really heavy on sex talk. but like sex ed. "guess what i jsut fixed(viberator)" then how many orgams she's having as she masterbates. (ON facebook). In RL its samething. Just dirty talk. When she's really drunk, she falls all over me. what gives? I wouldn't ever date this girl, she's fucked both my alpha friends. Still wouldn't mind her ass. Down right insulting her i dont really care anymore. In the beginning i was super nice guy. Now im like whatever bad bitch. She likes me more then I like her as a freind for sure but no sex as of now.



3. Current girl not LJBF. She knows me. Likes me to pick her up. Flirts with me. Pretty sure she likes me. Got her naked like 10 times thru strip poker and turth or dare. I need some proper kino tips.


So thats my situation. Coulda landed girls already in my life but i think back to those blown opputrunites. I suck at escalating. tottaly into me and I dont know what to do. only ones i know are the high fives when something good happens. Or like maybe a hug idk. Not afraid but its like going to NY to LA without a map.


Also when i do anything like escalating or bold moves, it feels weird to me around my friends. Like thats not me. Im the guy that everyone talks to but doesn't get any action. My buddies are both alpha male naturals. Pretty much outshine me when there at a party with me, but when its just me and i dont care about all the strangers. Im a pro. They pretty much game better then i do and when i do game any girl they sometimes will amog me. If i get amooged by my buddy i'am quiet until they leave. If some random dude comes up amoging. I dont give a shit and will run him into the ground.

So for all you pros out there, this new guy needs your advice.
Goal: Pussy for once in my life

Little side note recently i got really close to f close. Stole a girl from a guy at a party. flirted, kissed. she took my hat a wore it. lead me to the couch, but then it just died. Couldnt do anything casue there were so many people. Anyway other guy went to take a piss, she got up and followed him into the bathroom. Like i said i know ZERO escalation tips. Not even sure how i manged to kiss her. I had a ton of IOI's like was practically written come fuck me now. Nope, i shoulda lead her to the basement since nobody was down there. once again i fucked up. Just thinking about it! So frustrating.

first of all, put yourself in an environment where you are likely to meet girls who are not sloppy drunk and are not following dudes into bathrooms.

that is your first problem: environment

second, just start gaming chicks. why are you talking with girls on the phone about how they fixed their vibrators and stuff? the first time a girl talked about that with me on the phone, i would say "my cock works better than your vibrator, i'll be right over"

third, get outside of your social circle, don't waste your time around girls who your "alpha friends" have already had sex with? are you into sloppy seconds? i know i'm not.

sounds like you might be heavily into your own little clique's social scene and that it has a lot to do with partying.

parties are not the best place in the world to pick up girls. i'm not saying it doesn't happen. but it's also a good place to get a sexual assault charge, because drunk girls do fucked up shit.

go to the mall, or a starbucks, any number of other places (alone) and just game chicks, try to get number closes, shit, try to get f-closes.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

awesome post, there isnt as much element to "the game" when you are only trying to score at parties... like mack says, hit up ANY other places girls, espiecally places they arent drunk and you wont be getting sloppy seconds, and theyll remember

Not a good combination.

Forget everything you've learned from that scammer.

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Thanks guys. Your input is really appreciated. Environment sounds like it is a real problem for me. I think I should still look into learning escalation techniques.