Hey,

Ok, Ive being really busy for the last 3 weeks or so and before those three week I kiss closed this girl ive know for sometime. Obviously, over the 3 weeks after that i didnt see her because i literally had no time to, i even missed her birthday, which she asked me to come out to but i ignored the text and didnt go to as it wouldnt have been benificial to me. Now about 2 months ago we had a private joke going and she challenged me to a game of mini golf. So yesterday, a week after her brithday, i accepted her challenge and we went to go play. On the way there she was telling me a story and slipped in to conversation the words "the guy im kinda seeing," Im about 70% sure she wasnt lying there, but i do think she said it to see how i would react, what do you think?

Where as shes normally quite touchy feelly with me, this time playing mini golf she wasnt as much. The thing is is that i know shes the type of girl that likes strong man, someone thats decisive and doesnt give up!

Soo with that in mind im not sure if shes said that subtly in order to test me! And If i dont go after her she'll think ahh well he's clearly pathetic or whether i should just drop everything a let her come back to me?

How did you react?

The right thing to do would be to change nothing and just keep escalating. You'll also be a "guy she's kinda seeing" lol

Also, there's nothing wrong with having several girls that you "kinda see" as well

I didnt show too much towards it when she said about her seeing another guy, just laughed at the end of her story and carried on driving and talking normally! But then as i said it was harder than usual to get kino started, soo maybe i did change but i didnt realise it and maybe she saw that change in my body language, therefore, she reacted slightly differently around me!

Yeh that what i was planning on doing, escalating things, being more and more flirty! So invite her out again in the next couple of days?

Im out tonight, should i invite her out or is it too soon?

Invite a different girl out so you can protect yourself from oneitis