Hi!

I have this question about how to get a girl i know like me, but has said she is afraid of seeing me too much, because she knows this will make her feelings strong for me, and she doesn't want a relationship right now.

We met eachother a year ago, she had a boyfriend, but after a month or so, she broke up with him, and we were close to being together for a while, but then I moved to another town for 3 months, and we slipped away...

Now, a year after, I met her out on a club, we went home together, and since then we have both met eachother out on clubs and went home together, and occasionally hung out, watched movies etc.

I have come to a place where I want to see her a little bit more other than meeting up drunk and sleep together. The other day, I got really drunk, and I mentioned I liked her alot, and would like to be a little more serious, exclusive etc... Not a good move I think. She told me she didn't want a relationship right now, and said that if we meet to often like that, she knew she would get stronger feelings for me, and would want to be more serious. but since she doesnt want to have a relationship now, she doesn't seem so eager to meet ut, doesn't initiate meetings and so on, and seems a little colder.

How can I get around her fair of this turning into a relatonship? Right now I'm fine with having her as a fuckfriend, but I know myself, and if this goes on for another couple of months, I will get strong feelings for her, since there is so much I like about her, and we have so much fun when we are together.


I appreciate any answer!! Thx guys...

keep fucking her and she will fall in love

P.S. she has to be sober for this to work though