Hello PUA's,

I was wondering if you changed your routines based on venue?
In other words, would you use the same routines at a night club as you would at a bar during happy hour?

Similarly, would you use the same routine on a set of thirty year old business women as you would on a set of twenty year old college girls?

Thanks,
Nick

That's just another reason why routines are often considered a crutch, they can be very situational. Now in all reality, what you talk about with anybody depends on the situation. I am more inclined to talk about books in a library than a bar, for instance. But if you use routines, even if its just canned openers, you limit the opportunities to game women because your approach is trapped within the confines of the material. You can run out of material, but it is a lot tougher to run out of thoughts once you get the hang of doing things your own way.


To answer the question though, yes, I do change my approach based on where I am because different environments carry different levels of energy, SPAM, etc. I do not change how I talk to women based on their race, age, career, or anything of that nature. To me it would feel a bit dishonest to act like anyone other than myself in order to improve my position with a woman.

I change my approach based on the woman`s age and race/ethnicity more so than the venue. I tend to be direct with older women (28+) and women of the same race as me and more indirect with women outside my race. As far as routines...I don`t really use em.

Yes, you need to diversify your openers based on the venue. You can use canned openers to achieve your goal, but if you want the best results, you need to diversify them to DHV(Demonstration of Higher Value). By using lines that are specific to the venue they can increase the speed of seductions if done properly. Your Gambit(Opener) is one of the most important parts of your game; if you can't create interest on your first impression, aka your Gambit, then why would she keep the conversation going. Without any initial interest you are just waisting everyones time.