Ok sometimes when I talk to girls (this applies to in person & online.. ) they refer everything in the conversation to themselves.. like they say "I'm this.. I'm that.. ", etc. etc., they talk about themselves a lot & are basically advertising themselves.

What do I do if I'm talking to a girl who..

a) I can tell is self-conscious, but still refers everything to herself..

b) just a quiet girl who refers everything to herself..

or
c) a girl with a big ego and thinks she's hot shit

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I'm thinking it would vary between different personality types.

what do you do in conversations like these with these different personality types?
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If they know theyre hot and keep on talking about themselves - what type of neg should you be delivering to her to stop seeming so interested in herself and more interested in you etc..

and if they're self conscious do you just let them keep on talking about themselves? things like this are what i'm trying to find out..

and how exactly do you find out JUST how self conscious they are?

cause I know there's a lot of not so hot girls who can be extremely self conscious, some who are extremely self conscious but on the outside they may seem very confident.. etc. etc., sometimes I can get fooled.. what are good methods of finding out how they truly are?


thanks!

it's a shit test.

that is, girls who babble on endlessly about nothing but themselves.

it's screaming "HERE I AM. TOTALLY SELF-ABSORBED! YAY!"

the goal is to shut it down without an epic fail.......

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