Hi,

I need some help with these little kids who are bugging me in class. I'll try to explain the situation.

So I am the only new guy in our class this year. There were originally six guys, but with me 7. Now three of them I can really get along with, but the other 3 are annoying me! One is very thin with an acne covered face, the other is some rich kid with very long blonde hair (makes him look like a girl) and the third looks rather normal... now when I am alone with them they are litteraly kissing my ass (being very nice and such) but the three of them combined they start throwing insults at me. Trying to humiliate me in front of the other classmates. I always laugh it off and don't really respond, but this has gone for months now and they just need to stop. A girl I like is in my class and im sure she likes me too, but them throwing insults at me and I don't respond isn't that a big dlv? I'm much bigger then them and I can easily tear their head off but that's not a really good idea is it?

You could try AMOG battle with them (one at a time of course) in front of a group of people so you will humiliate them. Have prepared lines that are funny as hell.

Then in privacy offer them an "Non-Aggression-Pact".
I did that once in High School and it worked. But then, I was the kind of kid who made fun of everyone so I was very good at it..

However don't attempt this if it's not your style. Being non-reactive is always a good bet, as it shows you don't care what they think about you, and they are lowering their value by trying hard to put you down.

Imagine that you are King of the Earth and a bum comes up to you and makes fun of you, what would you do ?

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That's the problem, I don't know what to do. And it's very confusing because when they are alone they are very friendly, but such pricks when grouped up.. and its not really me to make fun of someone

Then here is what I would do. (it's hard to put into words as its mostly nonverbal but I'll try)
AMOG: "Hey looser, your mom just called and wanted me to tell you that she just washed your pink pyjamas that you pissed into tonight."

YOU: slooowly look at him, laugh maybe slightly exagerate the laughter as if he made a really a terrible joke but you didn't want him to feel bad about it. Like when a little kid makes a joke trying to impress you and that joke is not funny at all, but you don't want to disappoint the kid so you pretend to laugh.
Then slowly turn your head back and do what you have been doing before as if the joke didn't even enter your world.

If the joke wasn't really funny, you can do a completely exagerated laugh and then as if in the middle of the laughter stop laughing. You can literally do HA-HA-HA with small pauses between the HA's. It must not come off as if you were pissed by the joke. Just a flat Ha-ha.

Other option is to completely ignore it. As if you didn't even hear it and keep busy with whatever it was you were doing. Your world doesn't even involve them! They don't exist in it!

Or say "Cool man" not even looking at them. And keep on doing what you were doing. (If you didn't do anything then you should have! You should always be doing something at least to look like you do. I for instance pretend to be writting an important text msg, if there is really nothing else I can be doing)

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Okay thank you man, I will try to do that. The last two options fit me the most i think.

lol the general ''oh cool'' works well .. but you really sohuld not give a shit - don't take acting classes but REALLY FEEL like you are not giving a shit.

why are you even worried about these girls hooking up and negging you ? these are not guys but they are chodes standing there with their dick in their hands. If you would met them in a club they would be fucking nice to you because they are uncomfortable in that enviroment.

i had people and co-workers anoying my ass 24/7 but when i met them in the club where im comfortable and they are not they were like sheep follwing me.

anyway fuck what other people think of you ... its irrelevant ... WRITE IT DOWN : ITS IRRELEVANT ... IRRELEVANT

fuck these negging tactics and fuck these chodes there is enough dick on this planet to conquer the galaxy ...... ITS IRRELEVANT

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watch Manwhores 2008 speech at the 21 Convention!

He talks about being a 'Black-hole of emotions'

Just be present look them in the eye and suck all of their insults up. Don't react to them. Be calm and relaxed.