Hey guys.. i was just thinking.. if attraction is subconscious and can be triggered by doing certain things, then is the friendzone a threat at all? i mean there are no boundaries for chemistry and emotions

Attraction is a conscious things because you're aware of when you're attracted to the other person, we're not robots. The friend zone doesn't really exist, it's just a "temporary" feeling. And by that I'm referring to you just socializing with a gorgeous girl but when you and her are alone together, you can jump from the friend zone to potential partner within seconds. The "friend zone" simply means that you aren't being a man for that girl like nature put you to be. There is no sexual tension between you and that girl even though deep inside you like her. The reason being is that you keep that sexual tension locked within yourself, you don't let it out towards the girl.

You can make yourself be attracted to any girl out there you thought you wouldn't be attracted to provided that she's not extremely ugly. 75% of all the girls are already attracted to you. If you don't believe it, every time you see a girl that doesn't really get your attention, ask yourself, "If me and her were stranded alone, would I eventually fuck her?"

I saw a fat girl once, but she wasn't extremely ugly, she had a decent face. When me and her got close (distance-wise) and talked about sexual things, I immediately began to see myself fucking her and the more I thought of it, the more the attraction built up. But from first glance, it was the complete opposite.

thanks for your answer mate. im not talking about myself though, just in general. i just noticed too many topics on friend zone lately

there are a lot of topics about friend zones out there.
I opened a thread about how I got out of the friend zone using a strip club and extreme arousal

But if you actually just kino enough and become a sexual threat to her you leave the friend zone fast.
Then it just depends on how good your game is...either you lose her as a friend or have sex with her (Is stopped before sex in order to not lose her as a friend )


But yep, attraction is conscious BUT it's NOT a choice!
Neil Strauss has a great story about this where he tells about how he slept with the old women next door