So in person i can talk to girls i dont even do much talking but they seem to be attracted to me i met one on saturday first night iv ever went out not drinking about a 8.

she gave me her name an i added her on fb the next day came home from work had about 5 notifications of her writin on my wall an likin random pics

but once again texting fucks me off an facebook i hate it iv read some books on it but it doesnt seem to sink in i know i try an push for a meet waaaaaay to soon but i lack the skills in texting im always in my head in person i just say it right away but texting really annoys me is there a way to let a girl no over texts that you hate texting an its not for you

what iv been sayin with little luck is
i hate texting an facebook id rather meet in person is more manly

any help guys appreciated

PersoNally I don't like texting much either and I just know that now it's apart of the culture to do so. Even my parents do it bro! And thier old as t Rex penis. Leaving you to conform to this new method of communication. Just practice and get better at it. Begin to read the text as if it's a conversation and not as if it's just some stream of messages that you hate. Trust me I say that as long as you have the hate attitude toward it, it'll be nearly impossible to get good at it. Begin telling yourself " I/you love texting, it's so fun because it's convient at any time; and I get to think before I speak" basically point out all the positives about it.

Try and get girls on the phone wen you can. The whole Facebook to meet up thing doesn't work well because their is simply no comfort. I've only met up with two chicks from Facebook without ever talking to them on the phone an 1 turned out to be a dope head whose pics were 5 years old 0_o lol I was pissed. The other i went to skool wit but she still called me right before she came over.

Put in the work to get results. Fast foods bad for you. Cook the meal

I can feel your pain!

I don't like SMS, FB chat, and even phone calls! Because in real life I rely heavily on my facial expressions and body language. Without it, it's pain for me. What I will get away with personally I cannot do in text or chat or even phone call cos' it will come off as creepy or try-hard sometimes.

But as Fuze pointed out, you'll get better as you practice. I'm actually even starting to enjoy the FB chat as I got into it more..

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LOL im complete opposite ... i can text or facebook every girl with high succes ... but talking to them is not the point - you are always talking them into meeting you.

talking or texting isnt actually going to get you 2 anywhere and is a waste of time because the more you talk on text the less to talk about when meeting her, just hook her and get her attracted , call her and make some jokes and try to close as soon as possible.

the only thing you should convey during text is : interesting/mysterious , unpredictable, cocky/funny ...actually funny and cocky is enough on its own... that's all and when she is at the peak of emotional stimulation you should invite her to go out or something.

you cannot seriously ask a girl to meet you because you hate texting you can try but this is having 99 % failure rate. No matter what you have to accept everyones doing it.

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thanks for the replys guys i read the ultimate guide to texting just now an im still pretty much clueless i mean how can you be cockey an funny with no facial expresions i always think the girl thinks im a wanker iv been tryin to game on fb for ages now an its got to the stage where i have less AA going direct daygame than sending a message to a random chick on the book as i know its just gonna fuck up

when i was afc an younger my fb game wernt to bad i had a gf back in my afc days even though i hardly ever saw her an was begging to see her i was still chattin up girls an i deleted all my messages when she came round once an iv totally forgot i even fclosed 1 of the book

i just see the message over analyise an just carnt seem to think up of something it comes out like a essay


HB
hiya! thanks for the add!! did you have a good night the other day?
Yesterday at 13:56 ·LikeUnlike · · See friendship

ME hey yeah i had a good night took me a while to get use to dancin sober lol what about yourself you seemed to be havin a good time from what i saw anyway x
Yesterday at 18:44 · LikeUnlike Haha! Yeahh I had a really good night thanks!! I
think maybe one too many though! Haha. How come you stayed sober all night? X

Yesterday at 18:48 · LikeUnlike well when i drink i always end up just forgetting whole nights an always seem to end up in fights so i thought id give it a try an see if i could go a night without it i dont need to drink to have a good time anyway (: x


I Hardly even spoke to this girl it was my first sober night out but i must of done somethin right body langauge maybe she is friends with my wingman an we didnt sit down just dancin an that i didnt even dance with her i just spanked her arse once lol

but seriously i need to sort it an i will try lookin at the positives from it i am a beliver in if you think its easy then it will be any guides you can reccomed for me to read for internet texting please

So when you're planning to invite a girl out through facebook chat, you have to build up a cocky-funny vibe first to get her emotions up before you ask her out? What happens when you ask her out straight up with minimal talk? Something like,

me: hey, was it you in the civic earlier?
hb: uhm, no. maybe it was kaila(her other friend)
me: i don't think so. funny story, a civic comes up in the parking lot, honks and the two girls inside waved. lol. oh btw, let's go out again this week!

is that wrong?

I dont like texting either, and I definitely dont have small talk convos via text unless i have already fclosed.

The way I see it, a girl does not get to have all the fun of a conversation with me, unless were hanging out in real life.

So usually i just text a girl, "hey were hanging out friday round 8, sound good?" i added the sound good recently mayb from insecurity, but i dont want to come off super duper cocky.

Then they will usually respond with a "haha o are we?" then all i respond with is a simple
"yep, ill call ya tomorro!"
Sometimes they ask me what were gonna do sometimes they just say ok!, its pretty straightforward and simple though, as long as you come across as pretty fun and chill in real life they are going to want to hang out with you if they gave you their number

other than that, i dont text for small talk, if they text me yea ill send them back mayb a one line funny comment return, but that's really it... thats just me though so if some people have mad text game good for them, for me not really a strong point

From my experience when I want to take a girl I don't know that well out, it takes much more time gaming her over chat than it would normally do in real life.
I did the mistake several times on FB trying to do it as if it was real life and the girl started to ignore me even if she seen me before once or twice. The same goes for text msgs.
For me its at least 2 - 3 hours of chat before I can make my "move".
Such a waste of time..

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people who you have seen / met :
it's not wrong is just not that efficient to ask her out on the first joke or story you tell....... people who are already attracted can be asked in 5 or 10 minutes , otherwise i text at least 30 minutes or so.
the best moment to ask is when she laughs about all your jokes .. even stupid ones , that's a sign she is getting alot emotional stimulation.

Complet strangers, never seen in real life :
The colder the approach the more time it takes to game them , they won't go and sit somewhere with a complete stranger unless they are sluts. if you try to pickup girls over internet girls who you never met in real life you need to invest alot in chatting and so forth just to make her comfortable. it's just harder to make someone comfortable BEFORE attraction.

It's only certain personality types which allow you to talk to them on consistent basis , most of them are : nymphos , Girls who are dumped by their boyfriends, depressed girls and types that don't go out, normal people who do not like going out, insecure people who are seeking attention, woman who are 16 , 17 and are too young to go out because of certain attachements.

if you talk to complete strangers you should do it because you want to get better conversational skills otherwise it's a waste of time, if you are trying to pickup someone they are prone to seeing it because there is almos no attraction - no body language, eye contact, voice , no kino etc woman tend to be more on the logical side of the conversation. so if you do it to pickup chicks you already lost.

there is no real line you should follow , some personality types respond better to direct conversations than other types of woman. You have to know their personality, how they tend to think and what the underlying context behind their speech is. Its a calibration thing just like in the field , only a little bit harder because there is no immidiate attraction. if she shows you pictures or she is having pictures on her avatar you should look at her body language , you need to analyse more.

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