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Light Year
PostPosted: Tue May 17, 2011 1:09 am 
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Well the title pretty much says it all. I've found that very often I get that, or some variation (ie. You two should date), said to me by a friend of the girl I'm gaming. I feel like this is an opportune moment to escalate, or get out a great neg, but I always just shrug it off with an awkward laugh. Any advice for the next time I get told that?
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pending how the girls immediate reaction is to it, I would just use it as an excuse to shamelessly neg/escalate. You can playfully say "You think so? i'm not too sure she's not my type" smile and continue with the game.
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I would exaggerate it into a story for example:

"I think so too, we should get married have two kids and a dog, and move out to California. When we get a divorce I want the dog."

As long as you don't get flustered or embarrassed when she says it, you can say what you want.
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Ik kutan got it right. Any shit test, cockblock attempt, etc is best dealt with by going with it. If you argue the point you will always look like a douche, partly because whoever started it will make sure you look like one. Always go with it. In this case, you can do a pretty good job at shutting up the friend, because she sees that her passive aggressive attempts won't run you off. A more direct effort on her part only makes her look silly while making you look better.

I assume the girl's friend is also a girl...just way more common.
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roleplay! take it to the next level! Like ik tutan said.

Date? Were way pass that. (do a side hug) Were getting married next weekend. Didn't you get the invite? etc...

^^^this is if a girl is already showing interest

Verbal negs or IOD has to be calibrate. If a girl is showing interest, you don't want to neg. If she is giving IOD, then you neg or also roleplay.

Date? We tried, but it didn't work out. I mean she is a great cook, but I had to end it. She was just terrible in bed.

^^^this is if she is not showing interest.
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"Actually, we were just about to get married. Keep yourself updated!"
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This is a huge chance for role play.

Me: Oh christ we're well past that! We're organising the wedding plans aren't we babe?
Her: Awh yeah blah blah blah
Me: Gonna move away get big house, swimming pool, dog and four kids (hold one arm out for a hug and pull her in)

They're practically making it easy for you.

As long as you remain composed it doesnt really matter what you say.

Luca
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I think you should be the one saying that phrase in a playful way!
Gets the girl thinking :P
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I would exaggerate it into a story
It's so simple, yet igneous! I can't believe I didn't think of it...thanks a lot everyone!
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