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So there was this HB who i met up with a few times as friends, with her friends but never got any where because i was a total AFC, didnt escalate even when i had major IOI's. Used to talk on FB every other day, now shes never online and the last time i started the convo she was pretty dis interested.
Its been a couple of weeks since then, havent heard from her. have i blown my chance?
How can i regain attraction, should i text her, call her? and what kinda thing should i say?>
Thanks
I totally understand man, I had the same thing, a few girls were really attracted to me and i completely RUINED it by acting all nice, understanding, not having boundaries and especially by always having them end the conversation.
Now i'm kind of ignoring them and I'm busy with other things (and they can see it online) they sometimes 'like' me again on FB and all that. I'm not sure what i'm gonna do with it now either, but I might try again sometime.
The best advice I can give to you:
Let it cool off and be interesting, show (online?) that you are doing a lot of things and are busy (yeah also with other girls). When the time comes she might start talking to you or 'like' you or whatever and then you might be able to make it right this time.
Otherwise fuck it, there are so many girls out there, no reason to make a fool out of yourself for just one.
CHAT