ok so ive been hanging out with this chick from work. when we started chilling we agreed to keep things low key, and as far from serious as possible. cuz shes moving at the end of the summer and we didnt want to catch feelings.

so we've been chilling and having a good time. but i feel that ive kind of pushed myself into the friend zone by trying to keep it 'too low key'. i think some of it is the fact that shes one of those 'didnt talk in highschool, just got good grades and was shy' type girls.

im used to hanging out with girls that party and shit, so its easy to take things up a notch, and it just feels natural. but im unsure of how to escalate with this girl.

any suggestions?

I've been in a close enough situation and i had "moderate" sucess.
These girls may act like they don't like to party but they do.

Start of by taking her to a pub with some freinds and move from pub to pub and continue to a night club. Keep it fun and escalte. This environement seems to be your strong suit so their should not to much of a problems.
my humble opinion, i hope it helps.