| Before I tell you my first attempt i want you to know that i am new with this.
So dont judge me, I want your advice, try to visualize my story and tell me how you would have done it.
So I went to a party last night, crowded with different people. At the start I just looked around for girls I was interested in. So the first girl i tried on was quite easy, because we had been on the same summer camp 5 years ago. I walked around with a buddy i met at the party until i had her infront of me, then i pointed at her and smiled, she looked at me confused and then i said "I know you", she said "What? From where" then i told her we had been on the same summercamp and so on, and she recognized me. She actually started kino me directly but I figured out that she was one of those girls that do that. So it was not a big deal. Now she was with a friend, and i forgot all about her friend because i was so focused on what to say next, that I actually lost them both and ended up with her saying "Ill talk to you on facebook, nice to see you", I dont expect her to write, my focus was to start talking to girls and get that fear out of me. Then the funniest thing happend to me, i've starred at this chinese girl all night, and she starred at me, but in my mind i've already blew it because of the 3 second rule. But I noticed that she followed me around just so i would notice her. To make this story short, I chicken out. Then there was a girl HB9, really takes care of her looks and so on. So i decided to try it without a gameplan. She had a fur coat on her. I walked up to my friend who stood next to her and talked to his friend, i went up and start talking to them, I was standing like 10 a clock from her when i touched her furry coat and said "Is this real?" She said "Yes it is" I replied "No it aint, it dont look real", I noticed right away that i was fucked, because i stood there for 2 seconds without saying anything and then presented myself, and she got my name wrong so i said "are you deaf" and she replied "yes i am", really cold girl. But it was my fault not hers. Now this is my first attempt, as u see i am a AFC.
I listed things i did right this night.
- I stood up straight all the night, wich I often never do.
- I had balls to walk up to the girls, wich I often never do.
2 great things.
Then I listen things i did wrong.
- Starred to much at girls, the HB9 i actually though I made uncomftorble because I sat next to her plenty times, and looked at her plenty times. Not good!
- I should have open the 2set of chinese girls because I know their were in to me.
- Have a fucking game plan, I was thinking to much all the time, wich leads to nervousness.
But at the end of the day, this made me laugh! It was great. haha
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