i started talking to this girl three months ago and we have been talking every day since. I have known her my whole life, but have just recently begun really getting to know her. She lives in my home town, and I go to college two hours away, so we have only been able to hang out a few times since I started talking to her and we have never been alone together. She has given me a ton of IOIs like "I know I go to this guys house allot. I feel like I should tell you I hooked up with him once two summers ago, but I would never hook up with him again. I just thought you should know," and allot of her friends i dont know have friended me on facebook, signifying that she is talking about me to them. I move home this week and hope to finally capitalize on all the work ive put in. The problem is, lately Im the only one who initiates conversations. At first, she almost always started talking to me. Over the course of time, I have slowly taken over this role, and now she almost never talks to me first. I have tried freezing her out until she talks to me and it has worked, but takes increasingly more days to get her to text me the more I do it (ive only done it twice lol). The weird thing is, the IOIs havent stopped. The example i cited earlier happened a few weeks ago. IDK what to think of it. How big of a problem is this? Am I over thinking it?

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Totaly overthinking it. she might is a little bored about you cause she gave you so much IOI and you didnt approach her intimate , like going for a date or calling here to your house etc. The best think you can do is call her and say to her "we must meet for talk" if she is presistant and asks about the reason just say "i cant tell you on the phone, but its about a girl" BAM! you are interesting again! so you going to meet her make it seem like a date, then just talk to her us you would do with a friend of yours about HER , she will start and get the idea that you propably be talking about her and that she is the one you are talking about, if you get that feeling just say " i will meet her later, what you think i must do? " whatever she says make it with her right away and put an smile on

I am not an pua but i have made i many times and it worked for 100% its a psycho game, and woman need that kind of games.

P.s. sry for my bad english

The Greek

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Thanks for the response. I couldn't engage her intimately or go on a date because I dont live in the same town as her. When I have been in town, I have invited her to hang out. She has brought her friends and that's why we havent been alone. Thanks for the advice though. Good Stuff

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