hi guys

i want to ask a girl out on a date by texting her (nobody calls where i live, only in case for emergency or something).

I just want to ask her to have a drink in a bar, but i know if i just ask her in this way it's too boring. she won't reject me but i want to set the mood already.

i want her to be real excited to meet me and have already some playful sexual tension going on, so when we meet it will hit off immedeatly.

do you know some CF ways to ask a girl out? Like a few lines of conversation to capture her imagination, make her laugh and challenge her?

like:

Me: blabla
HB: reply's
Me: blabla
HB: haha, blabla, i would really like that
Me: blabla
HB: hihi, i'll be there!

Could you give me some inspiration? What's your best text game to ask a girl out?

Personally, I don't use text messages much, but when I call a girl I known just a little I usually go like this (I think you can adapt it to SMS) :

- Hey, how much did you miss me? (playfully - I'm already assuming that she did miss me, the question is only how much..)

she usually plays along, if not and says something like
- I didn't miss you.
or
- Not much/ Not at all.

I reply (again playfully)
- Oh you are such a terrible liar!

they usually don't have answer to this other then laughter.

Then when you sort of "force her" to admit that she misses you, you can suggest to go out
- I'm going out to XXX, you can tag along if you want.

I personally would never call a girl to a bar. Ever! I'd call her to go shopping with me to a Mall for example. You don't need to buy anything, just say you don't like anything in that mall.

Girls usually like shopping and also there are hired guns so I always try to create situation where I can make fun (aka NEG) my girl in front of the girl working there. Works perfectly to get here emotional stat pumped up!

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yeah i know a bar isn't the most ideal or original place to go to, but i'm in college, have lessons all day and a lot of work, so i have only some free time in the evening and then there's not much left but bar's, restaurants,...

anyone else some CF idea's?

I rarely call also.

My text are just self amusement. I don't make plans either too early. Then during evening, I just text "Hey, hanging out at &&&&& tonight, come chill."