A friend and I was watching "keys to the vip" and were really amazed.
Some guys clearly got good game, while others just has the looks and didn't eaven seem to work hard to get a girl. After watching some episodes we got into a discussion about confidence, and he told me that he got confidence but not in such ways that these players had. So I broke shit down to him, that confidence is something u build up. Then he asked me how? And from my experience, the first step is to make you feel good about yourself, I mean like go to a gym, groom yourself and so on. But we conclude that doing this only makes you feel good about yourself in appearance. I dont mean this in a bad way, because it is good, women look for this in a guy, but this wasn't still good enough. So we started talking about acting, that acting would be a dangerous weapon when you're out sarging. But none of us wants to join a theater club and start acting because that would just be a waste of time and energy, so I said something that was really emberessing but really interesting, How about if you stand infront of a mirror and practice on your facial impression, how to stand, how to laugh and so on! He looked at me like I was a freak and says.. Man..you are brilliant. So I wonder if anyone has done this? Because I know it will work, if you do it long enough you will start to be comfortable with yourself. I remember watching my sister walk front and back on high heels in the hallway when I was a kid, and now she walks like a pro. She even stood infront of the mirror just practice on looking good, and this was like 10 years ago, she is more confident than any women i've ever met in my beginning of life, it shines when she walks. I want it to be that way for me too.