Hey there. so yesterday i was at a party and sighted a old friend who i used to have interest in probably 2-3 years ago. she used to text me heaps and say how she wanted to get with me and that i was going to be the first person we kissed after her boyfriend. after that we semwhat drifted away as i really could not be bothered as i considered that a win as im moastly in it for the chase.
So upon arrival i see her, this girl who has turned from a 6.5 to about a 8 if not 8.5 (i have harsh ratings) she was glowing! most of the guys there were frothing on her and i lost count of the amount of times i noticed AFCs checking her out. so i decided to play the old ignore game and pretty much walked up to her friend and started talking to her. Out of the corner of my eye i noticed that she was looking at me so i continued to talk and then hastly with out making eye contact with her went off to have a drink with a friend. through out the night i was just waiting for the time to make conversation, but pretty much the party was just too much fun and i wasnt exactly desperate and thats how i played it off to her. embarrassingly my friend and i were seeing who could eat the most peanuts haha retarted i know but we were having a great time. as i was finishing the remander of peanuts still left within my mouth i headed to the bathroom. as i was walking there however we made eye contact and she waved me over. i walked over to her and kissed her on the cheek with my mouth still pretty much full. she asked me why i was here and i attempted to explain that i had my mouth full haha. i then walked off and told her i would come back and talk to her as we had so much to catch up on. so i walked off and continued my trip to the bathroom.
halfway through the night we make eye contact again. i walk up to her and touch her on the shoulder, whilst putting my arm around her and gently pulled her closer to me telling her that i still havent forgotten we have to talk.
the night continues on and i notice her looking at me from a distance a few times and also she came and started to dance right near my friends and i.
the night continued and i failed to have this chat as like i said i was having a good time.
so anyway i realised that i missed a really good opportunity so now am stuck in the stage of wondering what to do? i was thinking about talking to her on facebook chat, just in general being like how are you? what have you been up to blaaah. then after a we talk for a little bit, bring in the oh we still need to catch up. then arrange a time to go and have coffee together or something along those lines. whats everyones thoughts as to what i should do next?

truly troubled Ispy.

just the usual 'hey whats up' in facebook chat sounds ok to me... have a small chat then 'lets go have a drink' or something like that, where you can talk, like starbucks for example
try to keep your cool, she might have changed and gotten hotter but i think she still thinks you are higher value than her (even if you arent) so dont show it in any way that you think she is hotter than before.. she will sence that
thats just my opinion
good luck

actually yer that does make a lot of sense even if im not higher value then her i "fake it till i make it" haha. but thankyou, a lot simpler than i was thinking hey.

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