What leads a girl who previously gave you all the IOI's and started the conversations on FB and in general to suddenly go quiet and not initiate conversations anymore?
Is it a test of somesort, to get me to make a move?

The short answer is more than likely it is a test of some sort. Who knows? Who cares? It could be a myriad of reasons. Start playing the game and quit stalling and wasting time. Ask for her phone number in private message. If you've had a few emails of flirting back and forth with her your next email should simply be, "What is your number?". If she keeps emailing, bullshitting, excuses, blah blah blah...move on. If you get the number DISAPPEAR. Cut off ALL online contact immediately, wait a few days, call her, keep the call brief, and make a date 4 to 5 days in the future. Say, call her on a Monday night to make a date for Thursday night. NO WEEKEND DATES at first. I follow a system of not going out with a girl on a weekend until she ASKS me why I haven't asked her out on a weekend. And, they will if they're interested.

In my opinion Facebook will kill you instead of helping you. It adds too much confusion and unneeded variables into a simpler equation of getting laid. There's nothing like asking a chick face-to-face what her number is and gauging her reaction to just that one question alone. i dissect every reaction and word that she says under a microscope.

Too many guy's egos are too big to accept the fact (based on negative reactions) that she's just not sexually attracted to you.

thanks for the reply

I already have her number and have met her a few times when she was with friends but didn't make a move because she seemed cold/ being afc at good opportunities.

regardless of that she would still talk with high IOI's on fb.

Could she really lose attraction overnight?

or could it be a test to see whether i am that into her

thanks

The important thing is that you ask her out on a date. Just the two of you. She knows what you want. Don't ever think women don't know what we want. As long as you're asking her out on dates she knows your interested in her.

Does it make sense to you that girls with a high interest in you do not test you that much? I say, 'that much' because all girls will shit test you, but you haven't even gotten her one-on-one yet. Take it slow. Don't rush things. She might be good for a go in the sack, but would you want to be with a girl that makes you jump through hoops like that long term? You should be out getting more numbers.

Girls will feign interest all day with IOI's. Most are attention whores. It's the world we're living in now. Everyone acts like they're in front of a movie camera. It doesn't mean anything to me until you actually successfully get her on a date.

It's probably not that she lost attraction overnight. It's that she never had it to begin with. Ask her out on a date.

I have a female friend. I've known her for a while. Quick background: When we met, she had a boyfriend. I ran so much game on this chick it was crazy. Her defenses would be down and I would go for a close and get rejected every single time. She eventually broke up with her bf and the close happened shortly after.

The reason for the background is that one little part helped me figure her out. When she is not interested in someone or in a relationship, I can hit her up, get a very quick reply, and have her over to the house in a day, if not that very day. When she's interested or with someone, it's the exact opposite. I don't even have to ask her if she's with someone or not. I just know.

Now, my reason for saying all of this. I believe this chick that you're talking to is either interested in someone else, or is in a relationship with someone else. Women run hot and cold. There is no warm. At least that's been my view of them.

Just my 2 cents...

Is this girl a FB?

When she's not interested in someone or in a relationship...

Well, you're golden then.

As long as you don't get attached and pull the, "I want something more" line you've got a pretty good thing going.

I probably don't need to tell you she isn't LTR material.

You're above that 50 percent mark of attraction on a 100 percent scale. Once you dip below that mark or were never there to begin with you're not getting sex from a girl in my opinion.

It's always good to have other plates spinning (as in other girls) and play that game on her if not just to have backup when she is in one of her relationships.

That was already a given when I started gaming her. If a chick tells me she has a man and did the things she did with me then there would be no way I could trust her. Not that we had sex or anything while she was in a relationship, but ass grabbing, sexual texts, so on and so forth is proof enough of this.

I don't need to attract her. She's already been attracted. The deal has already been done. If I never have sex with her ever again, I'm cool with that. Like I said, she's a friend.

Plates are always spinning for me. The only reason I mentioned her was because of the fact that the OP was wondering why he's getting the silent SPAM. Only way I see it is that she has someone else on her mind.

"Not that we had sex or anything while she was in a relationship, but ass grabbing, sexual texts, so on and so forth is proof enough of this."


I've been in situations exactly like this. Guys with game just know you could never trust her, and the others will fall deeply in love with her and get burned for it.