I really dont know from where to start, I dont even know why am I writting this here, I guess i need to get this out and maybe hear some oppinions from you guys .

Intro:
I live i pretty much conservative society, one night stands are rare, really rare, GFs wait 2-3 months for first sex in RL, and if they are virgins then much more. There are also girls that just wait till they get married.

So I have been dating this girl for 1,5 months now. She is from smaller area and she is a virgin and clearly pointed that out yesterday and thats the reason I am posting here. I was suspecting this when we started dating but didnt have problems with it.
Yesterday we started talking, something about sex, she was saying that she is shy...etc and then told me that she is virgin and is waiting for marrige.
The problem started when I said every man expects sex in RL. She was like thats not going to happen and if I am expecting that we should break up now, cuz waiting will hurt her even more. We continued talking and decided that we should go on with RL and see what happens.

Now something that might help u understand why I dont have "much" problems with "no sex idea". Curenty a lot of stuff is going on in my life and most of them are bad, I am under heavy preassure (finnances,collage...some personal issues that I dont want to write here), so having a steady RL and having someone like this girl is a bright side in my life now.

I am someone that lives day by day but after what she said (that waiting will hurt her), I dont know what to do, breaking up will defenitly hurt me too (I saw that yesterday when we almost broke up). I dont mind having no sex now but that will change in time especially when I sort up my life.

One more thing in the beginning of RL I could not kino escalete (meanning she allowed me to touch just her back, arms and legs) now I can touch her anywhere, sometimes she does have complaints but...who cares lol, also few days ago we were at a party and then went to sleep and while lying (on some blankets on flor since everything else was occupied lol)we started kissing and I placed my leg between her legs and started to rub her tights and when I stoped she continued to move on her own and when I tryed to go with my hand she back off. I am saying this cuz kino progress was slow but still very noticeable so I guess one part of me still thinks that she would sleep with me at some point.

Right now I feel like we broke up, I dont know why, I guess i would not be suprised if we break up in the next few days which will be probably the hardes.

ps. thx for reading I know its a log post

Now keep in mind you guys were at a party. u might have gotten away with it if it was a more isolated situation.
Things seem to be going in the good direction. Girls want sexx just as much as we do. Just take it really slow, don't go beyond dry sex next time. and be tender and let her understad that things won't get weird if it escalets, that it something that stays between you guys.
Let her feel compfortable.
And don't worry about hurting her, just don't force her or act like a jurk and this will be a positive experience for her as well.
And keep your chin up, your days will be brighter in the near future, summer is around the corner.

The amount of women i have met and heard of who are virgins and have the 'no sex until marriage' ideal in their heads is countless. The amount of those women who then had sex within the first few months of the RL = Majority...

A lot of females have these 'ideals' in their head to maintain a sense of morals and characters, whether it be self instilled, religion based or influenced through friends and family. For a girl with these ideals to mentally grasp the idea of going against them is a theory in psychology known as 'cognitive dissonance", basically meaning her attitudes are not in sync with her beliefs.

This means that they must keep telling themself they will not have sex before marriage to avoid any cognitive dissonance, but when actually in a relationship, the body's natural hormones and related neurochemicals associated with attraction overpower these ideals leading to, and i guarantee you, sexual chemistry and overt sexual behavior on her behalf.

Don't let it bother you, laugh it off, next time she is getting heated you back off, and her being female, will then pursue the behavior more. If you're always the one being denied it gives her too much control and she will subconsciously form an opinion about you that you 'only want sex".

Thx for answers guys.
What you said makes sense, we will see what happens

Don't take your own sexuality for granted. Far too often, women demonize us for "only being interested in sex". For one, that just isn't true. We like sports, too. Second, that's just the way men are wired. They claim to despise us for it, but we're all like that and they keep coming back. In reality, it's what makes us men and draws them to us. They may not like it, but it's biology and it can't be denied.

I'm assuming you are a teenager. If that is so, then two things are true: 1) you are most likely not going to marry this girl, and 2) you are nearing your sexual prime. Your sexual prime is the point in your life when you get to experiment the most with sex, different partners, and really come into your own, sexually. As an adult of 34 years, I recommend that you don't disqualify the value of sexual experimentation. What you do now will determine your sexual behavior for years to come. If you repress your sexuality now, you will have a difficult time trying to reawaken it when you are an adult. If you open yourself up to your sexuality now, you will continue to be open and have more experience and partners as a result. Of course I recommend that you do so responsibly.

While my advice is not right for everyone, I'm just telling you what I wish I knew then. I didn't know that I could be open to my sexuality. I thought it was my job to be ashamed of my sexuality, because that's what women told me. They were wrong and/or pushing their own believes on me. Your sexuality is nothing to be ashamed of. If you are a teenage male, you have every right to be a raging ball of hormones. That's how God made you.

It may be that you still want to persue this relationship. It's very probable, as described before, that she will eventually subcumb to her own biology and give in. However, there is no reason you should apologize for desiring sex. "You're only interested in sex" is not an insult. Breaking up with a women because she won't put out does not make you a pig, it makes you a guy who knows what he wants. Like I said, there's almost no chance you're going to marry her anyways. If you did, it would almost certainly fail.

Reframe your mind, and it might just change your persepective. Be aware of the changes that are happening to you. They empower you, and are nothing you should ever be ashamed of.

BTW: I am in no way suggesting that you pressure this girl for sex. Never do that.