So my social group we meet up every weekend girls an boys an party an have house parties an that, they know im pretty confident but i could be alot more confident so what would happen if tommorow when i meet them were goin to a theme park so what would happen if i just start approaching random hbs an i just start speakin to them extremly direct will it seem wierd if i go from not very confident to extremly confident in a week. iv realised quite a bit these past few days and i want to be confident it just seems normal to me an been shy seems un-normal.

People adjust to your changes as long as you aren't a dick about it.

If you suddenly become Casanova over night, expect hostilities in the guise of jaded, cynical and sarcastic remarks.

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I've got 99 problems but...

I told my friends I'd been studying pick up, they know it's partially responsible for the person I've become (more confident and comfortable with myself) and they've not judged me for it. Honesty is always the best policy and if your friends throw it in your face, they're not friends worth having!

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One cannot lose what one has never had.

thanks for the replys guys iv told my male friends about it to try help them out, a few of them just want to remain afc even though they see me an my 3 wingmen get girls clueless why but guess its the same when someone introduced me i didnt even bother with it for 3 months till i saw change in my friend now i love it.

The girls on the other hand a few are hb 9s possible 10s but i belive a 10 is a girl you marry there is only one 10 but im 22 so i dont even try pick up on them because i want fun first but theres definatly one in the group who i get along with like a house on fire i throw an occasional bit of CF in there an basicaly do my own thing in clubs with randoms which they see an i get a few compliments of my social group of girls.

so the girls on the other hand i wouldnt be to sure to tell them id just defuse it with somethin like iv just learnt not to give a fuck an say that to them

long sentences there!

telling girls about pickup not the taboo some people think it is. sure you don't have to, but it's just not a big deal.

if they or you find it weird/uncomfortable, you can always break off to where they can't see or hear you. whatever you feel most comfortable with is the best option

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