After reading the essential pick up books and spending weeks watching videos in my free time. Nothing beats getting out in the field to practice. After "learning" all this material I went out and got smacked in the face (metaphorically) to a night of wall standing and fear induced non-openings.

Never again I said to myself..never again. The week after this epic fail I told myself on my way to class (go to University) or in between classes or basically whenever I see a hot girl I will approach. I average to around 6/day for 7 days straight number closed 3 and learned more everytime I went into a set.

Then BAM!!! All this time I spent gaming and analyzing where I went wrong/ improving caught up with me. Epic fail on two tests. Now, I'm 22 and went back to college to do this pre-med thing. Like most of us I've gotten into pick up after I dumbed my last gf of 3 years.

Where do I draw the line? I feel like I've discovered this whole new world I've never known before, something that can't be quanitified only experienced. I've got some pretty hefty responsibilities around campus (Research position that will leave me two publications as an undergrad before years end). Am I supposed to schedule this stuff like going to the gym? TFS 10-2 I go out to pick up girls and use that to motivate me to get my shit done?
I refuse to let myself lose out on becoming a doctor (looking at straight B's this semester), yet I also refuse to be an AFC.
How the fuck do you guys balance your shit?

ek

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Hi my name is Eric, what's your name ?

Just remember that pick up can't tell you who you are and it doesn't define you, it's just something that you do because you want to be better with women. Set aside time for it much like you would for the gym. Instead of exercising your muscles you are exercising yourself on social skills with women.

If you get the chance during the day to make an approach then go for it, but don't let it take over your life. Yes there is a lot to learn, sure the more experience you get the better you get, but you're 22 you have a lot of life ahead of you to figure out the secrets of meeting girls. It's easy to get caught up into this lifestyle and ignore the rest of your life...DON'T.

JLS