It's happened to all of us: you're talking to a hot girl and you get the feeling that you have a chance with her but you don't make a move because you're not sure if she likes you or not.

Figuring out if and when a girl likes you can make or break your success with pick up. If you can't tell if and when she likes you, then you'll always have analysis paralysis. You'll be stuck trying to decide if you should make a move and by the time you make your decision, it will be too late and you will ruin the moment.

Take a second to ask yourself: "If I know that a girl is interested in me, how much would the way I speak to her and the way I act around her change?"
Most likely a lot. You would feel a lot more comfortable around her, a lot more confident around her, and you'd have psychic like powers to be able to know when you should get her number and when you should go for the kiss.

So the question remains: how do you tell if a girl likes you? Well, first let me just say that there's no IOI that is 100% accurate like others might say. You shouldn't put too much weight on any specific sign of attraction. The problem with indicators or interest or signs of attraction is that many times, you end up looking for the right one or the one you think always works but she's there giving you other ones that you're probably not aware of. Then, you end up making her feel unwanted by not reciprocating her attraction towards you and your window of opportunity shuts tight.

The best way to tell if a girl likes you is to try and escalate your interaction. Escalation does not have to be physical. If it's loud wherever you are, ask her to go outside where it's more quiet. When it's more quiet, suggest that you grab a bite to eat later on that night or later on in the week. Get her number, hold her hand, go for the kiss, whatever.

The important thing is to always be moving the interaction forward. You're not wasting time waiting for the perfect window of opportunity to open. You're opening the window yourself. You're in control and you create your own opportunity. When you do this, you will be able to tell if she likes you because she will follow along with your advances.

What if she doesn't? That's okay too because now you know where you stand and now you're able to plan accordingly. Remember, it's not that a girl doesn't like you...it's that she doesn't like you yet.

Bottom line: escalate your interaction with her. You'll thank yourself for it later.

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Andy Yang
Learn Simple Steps To Successful Dating and Attraction at http://www.effectiveattraction.com

99% true. But I also can easily can escalate with most of my female friends, although we'll never end up in bed.