So last night I had a date with a girl I met online, and she brought along her friend who was visiting from out of town. I was totally in state, cocky-funny, and got to KINO very quickly. At the end, we were kissing pretty passionately at the bar. Here's where I think I may have blown it.

As I was kissing her I said, "It's too bad your friend's here," meaning that I would of course do her if she was alone. And she said, "Well, that could be a good thing."

In the moment I took it to mean "Thank God I've got my friend or I'd fuck you right here." But upon reflection, I'm wondering if this was not a total opening for a three-way.

Am I an idiot? If so, at least I've learned is to listen more closely. Thoughts?

you are an idiot. you just blew the best night of your life.

well, you asked, lol

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Not necessarily.. Could have been a shit test. Women say shit like this all the time. I throw it back at them. You could have said one word that would have told you everything you needed to know.

Why?

That one word would have put her on the spot. Don't be afraid to raise the bullshit card with women. If they way they would do something, say "Prove it". Most likely they'll either do it or back down. Either way you look at it, you win. Most times they'll probably back down and say something along the lines of "Why do I need to prove it?" or "I don't have to prove anything." Again, just put her back on the spot. The key to all of it is to do it playfully.

In the end, thinking about what could have been or what you could have said does absolutely nothing for you. Live in the moment. A 3-some is very elusive. Just when you think it's about to happen, you one of the girls gets a phone call saying that her son is going to be home alone unless she comes home right now. (true story) If the stars ever align again for whatever reason, invite them both back to your place for some late night breakfast or something and see what happens from there.

I'm in two minds on this one. On one hand she didn't say " Thats probably a good thing" she said "That could be a good thing" "could" meaning future tense. So possibly it was on, but... If you weren't getting kino of both girls and there was no hint of the subject in the air (believe me if it's on the subject comes up quick enough) then maybe it wasn't.

At least you know better for next time.

Don't overthink it, just get back on it.