Okay guys, as much as i like to game there is a problem. Bad reputation = bitch aegis. I have been hitting up with some of the girls in my school, and now i have developed a really bad reputation as a player. As much as i want to start a serious relationship, my reputation prevents me. How can i redeem myself?

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Did you sleep with bunch of those women your hitting on? If not, your not a player, just a chode.

If you truly are a "player" you would have nothing to be a shamed off. And your skill set should not limit from just gaming at your school. What, you think a player would apologize that he slept with bunch of women? I think not. Your doing nothing wrong by sleeping with women, thus, there is no need for redemption or apology

Your game needs work if you ask me.

I dont think youve posted enough to see if your game needs work or not, but you do need to broaden your view. If you did fuck all these girls, you can simply play it off as they arent girlfriend material. They came on to you for pete's sake, thats not what youre after. If you DIDNT fuck these chicks than youre an outgoing guy. Schools are good at first but tough for the very reason youre experiencing.

Is there a particular chick you want to get serious with but has told you she thinks youre a player? Whenver that comes up use some line like "im looking for the right girl. I know you have these notions about me from what people say, but Im not a player. I actually have no game, im just a shy guy trying to be friendly. If I say something to you that you really like its because Im being honest."

idk, taht line has worked for me more times than I can count. I call it being a "reverse-player" ie pretending, even saying, you have no game. Before you know it, shes fallen for it.

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I like women, but i dont like to play them. I mean i game when im single, but when im in a relationship im truthful. So no, im not a player, but most people consider a someone that gets around one.

Problem is: even though im serious with whoever im dating. People consider me playing them. Somehow rumors are really affecting my game and my relationship.
I guess i can convince one person, but ill have to live with that name as long as im there?

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