My girlfriend of almost 12 years left me 6 weeks ago. I never had a girlfriend before her. She told me I'm too ugly to ever get another girlfriend. I have always felt ugly. I've never had a girl try to pick me up before, So I must be ugly. Alot of people have told me I'm ugly all my life. No matter how I cut my hair or what kind of clothes I wear, people tell me I'm ugly.

I feel like pua may be my only hope.

But perhaps I may be too ugly for pua techniques to even work for someone as repulsive as me?

I tried to post links to a video of myself here, but since I don't have 5 posts yet, it won't allow me.

I need alot of help. I want to be successful with women.

Romeo

Also, I browsed this forum for the last couple days. I've only known of the existence of pickup for a few months. I even emailed about the bootcamp thing I seen on this site here, but I don't even know if it'd do someone as ugly as me any good. I'm seeking the truth.

I am 6'3" tall, and kinda skinny, not muscular at all, I dress like a rockstar, because i'm a musician and feel comfortable in these clothes.

No matter how ugly you are, pick up will still work for you if you get it right. Though, when it comes to appearances, make sure you maintain good hygiene!
Also, don't let people tell you that you're ugly, you shouldn't be tolerating that kind of behaviour and you don't need those sorts of people in your life. I for one, have doubts about whether you even are as ugly as these people say.

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Well, I'm skinny, and I don't have a six pack.
And I uploaded a face picture to this website that analisyes the symetery of your face, and it says my face is way too long and narrow. And also my ears are longer than they should be. I feel like that guy from that old movie Cher was in called the Mask.

I will post a link to a video of me whenever I've been here long enough or made enough posts to be allowed to.

I do have good hygiene. I wash my hair & take showers and use deodorants, colognes & breath mints.

I've never really tried to pick up a girl before, I mean, I haven't really applied myself I don't think. I mean I never knew how. No one has ever told me how or anything. And I recently found out about pua, and I'm amazed that there's a system by it and that people use routiines etc.

I really hope this stuff will work for me if i try to apply it.

I also hope that pua movie i read about in another thread fails, because now that i just discovered this pua stuff exists and you people are saying it works, i don;t want a movie to ruin it by letting women know how it's done.

But back to the subject,

I read alot on here where it's said confidence counts for alot.

I feel like I could be very confident, if I could just have some success! haha!

I don't think I worded that to make sense;'(

I guess I've always been afraid to ask girls out.

I don't even know how I managed to get my ex girlfriend to like me, I think it was just pure luck, I had met her online.

hey sixpounder,

how much has pua improved your results?

i seen some videos on utube of pua's and i thought well of course they are getting all the girls, because they look attractive anyways.

but i don't know.

i hope it works. i'm desperate. i've been feeling hopeless lately, but the more i've read in this forum, the more i think that MAYBE, just maybe there may be a light at the end of the tunnel for me.

I live in Austin, and it's supposed to be one of the best places for singles.

I would like to maybe meet other members in this forum that live in Austin, maybe if anyone here lives in Austin they could meet with me and help mentor me?

I'm also extremely skinny, I'm the skinniest guy I know and I'm still a little insecure on that front. I have a six pack but that's only because I'm so thin. Other people don't tend to cast as much judgement on you for being skinny as you do yourself. Just act confident, be happy with yourself and you can get away with pretty much anything; if you treat it as a problem, then other people will too.
Don't worry about what that face analyser says, it's ridiculous to be concerned about such things. I used to worry that my hands were too small, my nose too wide, my front teeth too large and that my ears protruded too much... It was all nonsense that stemmed from analysing myself too much. Again, very few people will care if you don't care yourself.
It definitely will work for you if you stick at it, I have no doubt in my mind about that.
Amen to that!
Confidence does matter but that will improve over time. When I first went into the field, I found it helpful to have a canned opener; it meant that I knew I'd have something to say and the likely route the conversation would take.

Last thing I'll mention is this exercise:
Write down 5 things that you like about yourself. It can be appearance (e.g. you're tall), achievement or any other quality in yourself but not anything material (e.g. not I've got a nice car). Whenever you're feeling down about yourself or worried that you're not good enough, remember those 5 things. You are the prize and any woman would be lucky to have you.

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One cannot lose what one has never had.

PUA has improved my results a thousandfold, I used to have a social anxiety disorder and I was absolutely petrified of people, both men and women. Now, I'm comfortable approaching, I can usually generate interest and get a number or KC. I have a bit of a sticking point with arranging day 2s or going for the SNL but I've been really pleased with the results that I've gotten from PUA.

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One cannot lose what one has never had.

Cool!
I guess my top qualities are:
I'm a very unique & eccentric person
I love to make a girl feel good & pleasure her, above so my own. it makes me feel good to make a girl feel good.
I'm creative & artistic & passionate
I'm intelligent & thoughtful
I'm not rich but I'm a hard worker

Good stuff Romeo, ive struggled with anxiety issues all my life. As long as you dress well and look after what you have looks do not matter so much with women but character does.

Trollin

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I'm about your height and that's a huge advantage. I've dated quite a few short girls, who were initially attracted to me because I was so much taller than them.
As for the skinny thing, just wear layered clothing and you'll be fine. Women much prefer skinny guys, to obese guys. With the right clothes, women will just think you are in really good shape. Same goes for the length of your face and your ears. All you have to do is find the right hair cut and facial hair style to suit your face and you'll be fine.
Women are far less visual than men anyway, so a lot of your success will depend on your confidence and attitude. So don't worry about your looks.

Dude, have you seen how skinny Mystery is??? Skinny isn't a big deal. In Mystery's own words, "I'm slender, but I wear clothes that make it look good."

As for symmetry of face, that's complete bullshit. I've heard that asymmetry is more attractive. Anyway, height is more significant than looks.

I've had plenty of girls call me ugly, and I've gotten laid from game. One girl told me I was the ugliest guy she'd ever seen. (Granted, we were fighting at the time, but you have to put it in context as with your ex.) Your ex-girlfriend just wanted to make you feel bad, are you going to let her win at that game?

And if you want a 6-pack go get a 6-pack, it takes about 2 months of 10 minutes a day, 3 times a week ab exercises.

If you want to go around thinking about why you're going to fail, you are going to fail. There's always a very good reason for anyone to fail at anything, so you can always convince yourself that you're not going to succeed. But why would you want to do so? Think about why you're going to succeed, and watch your success grow.

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"I'd tell her to go shove her face in the pig pen, and go out and find another one who'll kiss you without askin for the earth. You're bound to find one. You can hardly throw half a brick back in the lands you come from without hittin one."
Stardust

post pictures, it's the only way we'll truly know.

Your ex didn't tell you that because it was true. She told you it because she knows that it's what you think and she wanted to hurt you to gain power.

What's more, it's likely the psychology side of things that has a big reason why you broke up to begin with. The summary is you need more than a crutch woman to make you feel good about yourself.

Have you seen some PUAs? David X? Gunwitch? In fact most of them looked ridiculous 10 years ago (I guess everyone looked ridiculous in the 90's!). I found pualib.com while writing this - go see for yourself.

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I'm a winner - I am going to win.

Wow, I had no idea one could get good abs in as little as 3 months! That gives me encouragement to work on that, I was always put off cause I thought that took guys at least a year, 30 min a day to achieve.

I haven't heard of any of those pua you mentioned. I've only read about half of The Game, and I seen a few of Mysterys videos on youtube.

But I will look them up, I am eager to learn everything.

I read a post on here several days ago about body language of a alpha man, and I've been trying to remember to do those things, because before I read that I was a extremely fast talker, and fast walker. now i'm trying to talk & walk at a much slower pace. I'm also trying to stand with wider stances, and watch my posture standing straight up more. I was pretty much doing everything in that sticky wrong, haha.