Speaking with this girl for 2 months we had one date and she continued to ring me and treat me as her BF. She recently got out of a relationship so she wasn't ready to jump into things but we would be on the phone for hours. We know eachother really well and get on great. VERY cute and funny.

She told me weeks back she wanted to be friends pretty much dumping me she didn't like that I got jealous when she mentioned guys asking for her number etc but she kept ringing a few days after and showing interest.

We work together and we would decide to meet up and get on the train and she gave me a lift once. We flirted like mad and were all over eachother in her car 2 weeks ago but she never kissed me she was saying "I'm rushing" laughing and "I will another time" and kissed my forearm lol.

Last week she called me like 16 x but this week she only has called me 3 x. and I have called nearly everyday and it's not like her to be like this so I think she doesn't care that much for me now. Keeps saying she is single and guys on her facebook flirt with her ask her out on date on her facebook page all the time and she goes out with lots of male friends. She asked me if I was working this Wednesday and I said yeah it would be good to see you and she said "yeah"

So I see she isn't calling me like she used to(every other day) so should I start to cut down or stop? I want her still.

Too me it sounds like she is looking for attention, if a girl is interested she shouldn't be flaunting and gloating about other guys. I would let her text you, and go sarge other girls so you don't have her on your mind.

All the other guys she is talking to are just giving her the attention she needs and when she sees that you are distant, she will want what she can't have. I wouldn't be jealous because you two aren't in a relationship your not exclusive, If you decide to hang out with her bring her out somewhere you a familiar with a show her that you have validation instead of word of mouth like her.

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I just wanted to say; 'Oneitis, go and fuck 10 other girls!' when I red the name of the topic. Then I red your post and I think; Go and fuck 10 other girls!

Actually I just recovered from Oneitis and that's my plan for now

True but it's not that easy though. Same with this social proof crap. I admit I don't really have any friends and there isn't anything I can do about it. I still think I should be able to keep a girlfriend though.

We have made out twice btw, she even got me a birthday card for my Bday a week after we were seeing eachother and "forced" herself around my house to give it to me. I ended up getting the card and a kiss. It's weird looking back, she was acting like I was her husband.