There's this girl that lives a few floors below me in the dorm. I talked to her once for a few minutes and was extremely confident; she liked it. The other day I was running and saw her and another one of my other friends, and they both waved. A few days later, I came back from a run and saw her; she had just come back from a run too and made an effort to catch up to me.

Our conversation went something like this:
her: Hey! How was your run?
me: It was good, it's random how you always see me when I go for a run.
her: Haha yeah I know!
*Talk about dorms for next year and other random shit*
her: Hey, well let me get your number, and we can go running sometime!
*takes me back to her room for a minute to get her phone; talk about other random shit, and we exchange numbers*
her: Text me sometime to go!

She seemed really into me, so the next night I texted her asking what time her first class was in the morning. I never heard back from her, and it's been a few days.

Is she playing hard to get, or just being a bitch? Advice?

"*takes me back to her room for a minute to get her phone"


Opportunity missed, duuuude.



And its possible she scrolled through it, forgot about it, or just didnt get it. Text her about (upcoming event) that she should go to with you.

So right dubz.

Don't get in the friend zone.

Make a move and make sexual jokes. Like say something that could be normal or taken as sexual. When she takes it sexually, be like, "oh I see where ur minds at, ur a bad girl" like she saw something sexual when u didn't

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@TX-Damn damn damn bro'(lol)!!!

She gave you the chance to seduce her when she went to give you the #[like AgDubz said].

Im not saying you should've jumped on her like a wild dog.

But all the time you were fluff talking about random stuff,you could've been building more attraction,telling an interesting story(DHV)while sitting close,KINO'ing playfully then lay her.

She's now backward rationalizing and perhaps saying to herself,"I gave him the chance yet he didnt take it".

95% of men would've did the same thing and not take the chance she presented-so dont feel to bad(lol).

She expected you to have been part of that 5% of men who gets laid(regularly).

She was hoping that you were in "the know".

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FUCK!!!!

Here's what I was thinking of doing. I was gonna call her tomorrow around noon and say something like, "Hey, I'm going for a run around 4. You should come if you think you can keep up."

Is that the best way to approach the situation, or should I do something else? Also, should I call or text? I kind of feel like calling is better, but I'm still in learning about this kind of stuff...

Well,that is the best approach;I like how you framed it correctly.

You didnt beg nor ask but you're inviting her to come and run.

I'd do it by text(depending on time frame).

You cannot call her at 4 am for a run,so it's best to text her.

But what will the run accomplish?

You have to ask yourself that bro'.

If he does come along and you play it safe again,it'd be time for her to NEXT you(if she hadnt already).

If she does come along,you have to get real playful with her.

Give her a reason to want to meet up again.

Obviously you cannot lay her while on a run so you'd have to ramp up the KINO so she'd want to meet again.

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Thanks for the advice, man, and I'll definitely step up the kino and keep her interest up if she comes.

Btw I was talking about 4:00 pm to go run haha. Do you think I should call her around 12 or 1? Or should I still text? I feel like it's easier for her to not respond to a text, but that's just me.

Also, it's our finals week, so there's a chance she'll be legitimately busy at the time. If she is, what should my next approach be? If I called her and she had a group project or something at that time, should I say something (playfully of course) like, "You know that this is strike two for you right? I'm starting to question whether or not you're even cool enough to go running with me..."

Thoughts/suggestions?

Lol I thought you meant a 4 am run.

And you're quite right,you should definitely call her intead of text.

I dont know if this would be reaching,but seems to be a good idea to do both.

Send the text around noon,then call her sometime before 4 pm.

As you said,it's easy for her to not respond to the txt.

Just try to seem not desperate about it.

Make it casual and nonchalant as possible.

"She come-she comes,she doesnt it cool,Im gonna still run".

That should be your vibe.

If she doent respond to the run invite,then F the run!

Go for something where you can end up laying her:like a walk in the evening.

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How should I respond?!?!?

I just got this text:
"Hey there! Sorry I'm in a review session - it'll probably go late so I'm not sure I'll have time to run today! Thank you though!!! Enjoy!"

Bro',go for the meet up!!!

In essence,she's saying she cant make it to run,and she doesnt want to go run since it wont result into a lay(which's what she wants).

This' your chance to purpose something where you can lead her to a lay location.

Hit her with something like,"Cool,I'll be hanging at ***** this evening-you can come along".

Push the friggin' envelope now dude!!!

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