SOOOOO I'm at the gym, just trying to get in a pick up game. This chick has next. So I approach her.

ME: You got next ya?
HER: Yeaahh
ME: You got a squad?
HER: NOOOO
ME: Can I run with you?
HER: IDK.....mayybbeee

Then almost simotaniously we both smiled and she walked away.

Ok so like 10mins pass she's sitting down by herself. So I asked her again.

ME: SOOOOO can I run?
HER: IDKKK MAAYBBEE ))
ME: What if I said I know spanish then could i play?
HER: I don't know spanish dude!
ME: AHHH aren't you spanish?
HER: Yeah but IDK spanish!
HER: But you can teach me ))
ME: Haha I'll teach you if you let me play.
HER: IDK are you really good?
ME: Uhh lets find out just pick me!

Then idk someone picked her ball up and she left......

She didn't pick me BTW.....
I felt some attraction here, any quick clever ways to # close her next time I see her?

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Sorry, can you translate from the American dialect a little? Us Englanders haven't got a clue what half of that means!

It was direct game. And you missed.

First, you didn't built attraction, 2nd no comfort. It seem like you kept trying to pull and she kept pushing. Seems like a AFC conversation to me. Keep in mind I am just going off conversation and nothing else like body language. Also, you don't ask. It should be like "Your next? Ok, your running with me."

If your going direct, being alpha is critical.

hahaha what didn't you understand?


And I will have to dis-agree with you 0uch, for I had no intention on gaming her, so there was no missing. I was just trying to get on her team so I could get my cardio in. She just seemed to be flirting with me. For she turned her body towards me and began grinning a lil when I sat next to her. When I ran the situation back in my head, I did feel I missed out on something. Which is why I posted it here.

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I don't understand what 'next' is, and why she has ball and is running!

Next in the USA you call next so you can get on the court and play. She had next, as in her team was next up to play.

And the ball thing. She noticed someone with her ball, and she went to go get it.

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?