so for the first time for me i took the girl onto the bed and we cuddled. she took my shirt off and i was like getting nervous and aroused at the same time. i was thinking THIS IS IT MOESKYHIGH....THIS IS IT...THIS IS THE MOMENT YOU HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR YOUR WHOLE LIFE :DDDDDD
she told me to put a condom on and i did, we cuddled a bit more. Than i FUCKED her.
10 minutes into the whole thing, i was thinking "THIS IS SEX?!!! well this fucking sucks!!! i have been wacking off to this shit my entire life!!!" so i figured to try other positions. i put her on top n she started to ride. and that was my favourite position in my fantasies. but during that moment i felt nothing. tried couple of other positions n 25 minutes later i busted by wacking off. and i was like THAT WAS UTTERLY HORRIBLE
my expectations were way beyond.
could it be bcuz of the condom ?! it was lubricated ofcourse.

I heard that alot of guys when they lose their virginity have bad sex,while I have yet, to lose it , I am sure mine would be the same,but I'd rather be bad at sex,and cum the first second i put it in.

yea my friends say that they cummed right the first second they put it in! i was very confused..cuz i also remember the times that girls sat on my crouch or grinded and dick was about to explode. but not this time when i was actually losing my virginity. THIS FUCKING BLOWS

Look at it this way, you have surpassed a mental block, you've gotten laid, AND it will only get better from here on out. Confidence booster. Positions, orgasms, stacked orgasms, Tantra, tons of places to go from there...Congratz.

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Hahahhaha first thing I thought of when I read this was Extramask from The Game. Sounded alot like him.
In any case, I've yet to lose mine. Should probably get around to it when of these days...

hahaha, dude Mine was exactly the same! Also with her on top and everything (was also my favourite fantasy).

Bit underwhelming, even though I was kind of in love, it was in a nice luxurious location, the girl was already much more experienced and really no fault could be found with it anywhere in sight. So I was especially underwhelmed cos everything was already so perfect. It was pretty funny, especially in hindsight, but I muddled through it ok.

I dunno, watching more (good) p0rnz in close proximity (not during though, ew! That shit is kinda lame imo) to the act helped me to get more into it physically (to the benefit of the lady also I might add). Now it's all good.

First off your first time more than likely will suck as well its your first time. So your not alone there. As far as not feeling anything, that most probably due to jacking off a lot. The more and harder you jack off the more it desensitize you. Saying that condoms can also do this, but its more on the rare side.

You still have to adapt to the new sensations, and adapt to the condom

Takes time, but believe me, sex is great.

First times are rarely enjoyable.

Don't fret too much about it.

Sex gets exponentially fun with every time you do it.

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lol realy? i didnt have the chance to read the book, but did he manage to get his senses back? i mean did he end up having the greatest sex he ever had?

oh man i never thought about how masturbation plays a big role in this one...thanx ill try to not do it...i could barely stop it for only a week though...how long should i stop?

Yea dude, this first couple times are shitty as fuck.. And I lost mines to a virgin in the passenger seat of a car. And that shit blew. The girl you did it with was probably loose and didnt know what she was doing. Watch, your gonna be banging a lot of other girls soon. You'll see the difference.

Like when you make a girl cum for the first time, it'll change your entire perspective on sex... Fyi, condoms suck bro, but unless it's your girlfriend who's on BC it's not worth it

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don't worry dude mine sucked too, I think it's just because neither of us were experienced (I'm still far from an expert) but I felt good after it regardless.

You've just got to put it in and go at it like a terrier. It's the best way. Wear an extra safe condom aswell otherwise you'll just jizz everywhere the second you put it in. Hump. Then when that's done, wait half an hour and go at it again but try and be a bit more conscious of what you're doing because after your first time, you'll feel like a pro.

It's the way I did it anyway, not saying it works for everyone!

to tell the truth blood my first time i didnt cum. I am a muslim and i got circumsized when i was young so know if i got a jonny on i cant feel nothin.
it was ok and fun but as far as pleasure goes i would need to go bare back.
any1 else got the same thing goin on?