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This may seem pretty banal to most of you guys but I just wanted to share my experience of this last night. Usually, I enter a club and hit the bar straight away, I might go and dance for a bit if I like the song but usually I stay in the same spot and wait for people I know to come and say hi to me, I only really move off if I spot a girl that I want.
Last night, I went in and straight away started a circuit, seeking out people I knew and greeting them, a quick hug and some small talk before I moved off to greet the next friend (I've gotten to know pretty much all of the regulars over the past few months). Only after I'd said hello to everyone did I finally go to the bar and do a couple of shots with one of my female friends (trying to show that I was pre-selected).
It made a huge difference to women's receptivity toward me, every girl I approached was practically hanging on my every word, which boosted my confidence a ton and it sort of snowballed from there. I got approached repeatedly (usually I get 2 or 3 in a night but they were practically waiting in line for me last night) and one girl even went as far as to blurt out "no, I fancy you!" and then look terribly embarrassed when I was teasing her about being in to one of her friends (she texted me this morning apologizing for saying it followed by: "not that it's not true").
I'm very fussy so I didn't actually want anything from any of the girls in the club but I met a metric fuck ton of women and I figure it's always useful to know women!
Well done. This is what most advanced PUA coaches teach. Go out with the aim of having fun and being social and women will look at you in a more admiral light.