Hi Everyone ...

Keep in mind that I created this Topic so that I didn't have to go To Approach and Mid Game Section, and create multiple Topics ! Also because, the Thread's that do talk about this things have information scattered along many pages, and few have it all put together for a easy read. I'm not more than the others, but I like it simple and straightfoward, without information spread through many pages but rather a good chunk of it in one.

Hope you've been having results playing ''The Game'' ;D

Anyways, I created this Topic to get some answers, and hopefully clearing other people's doubts TOO, in a more simplified way. Though I have been getting results after adapting certain characteristics described by books like ''The Game'' ( and by results, I don't mean scoring or such, but rather seeing that those said characteristics do work when talking to a lady ), I still find myself not knowing how to react in certain situations.

Having the Basics ''sort of'' covered, how do I ... :

A
- Generate attraction ?
- How do I know I have generated attraction and the female is know interested ...
- ... and how do I show, interest too in a subtle way ? ( Try to answer in a universal way, and not by experience, as women are not equals in how they react and such ... )

B
- How do I keep conversations interesting and not bold like many other guys do ...
- ... and how do I make it seem casual ???

Many guys here on the Forum ( not in this particular section, but still ... ) have found themselves struggling to continue a conversation after opening and by making it seem casual and not scripted.

C
Maybe a week ago, I knew two girls:
- One was not very talkative, and I did not know If it was because of my presence ( If she was attracted by me or not ) or if she was just shy.
- One was a friend of a friend of mine, and she seemed playful. Although I just met her a few minutes ago, she sprayed me with a girls perfume on the neck, while I was sitting with two of my buddy's, and I didn't do a thing, nor did I knew If I was suposed to.

The question is:
- How to open shy girls, or not very talkative ones and ...
- ... how to react with girls who tease us by doing things to us ? Should people react by doing something similar or should we just ignore ? Which one teases the girl the most ??

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Keep in mind this Topic will be used more than a many few times to clarify possible doubts I or others might have. Atleast I hope so :X

Anyways, keep it simple, with a language everybody understands, not for me, but for everybody.

Cheers,

PUWannabe_TP

A.
- You generate attraction by displaying certain key qualities, such as confidence and value. You've got to be interesting and, when she starts to show that she's interested in you, you've got to capitalize on it.
- You know the girl is interested when she's giving you IOIs, I'm sure there's a list of them somewhere around here but some common ones are playing with the hair, scratching the wrist or back of the hand, leaning in, touching you...
- Showing interest is a process of reciprocation, you show interest when she does and in similar ways.

B.
- To keep conversations interesting, drive them into directions she wouldn't expect, talk about things that most people probably don't talk about, avoid the standard conversations or if you're not, make them fun e.g. if a girl asks you what you do, rather than giving her a straight boring answer you can say something fun and make it clear that you're joking. Be unexpected! Be playful!
This is where you can throw in routines too, I like the cube routine and usually enter into it after mentioning that I took psychology in college.
- Making things seem casual is a matter of practise when it comes to canned material. Of course, if you're not struggling for conversational material, just go with it and the conversation will be natural.

C.
- With shy girls, you don't want to neg them and you want to show interest in her (not sexual interest immediately but be interested in getting to know her, ask her about her!). You've got to work at making them open up a little and eventually they'll let you into their world.
- If a girl teases you, as in your example with the perfume, she's showing interest and you should reciprocate. She's playing with you and you should play back.

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One cannot lose what one has never had.

Thank you for the Reply ;D !!!

Although simple, it was very helpful.

I've got more questions though, so you ( Sixpounder ) or any other Member feel free to answer.

- How do you guys remember such lines as ''Ohh, your eyes are beautiful, but I like the left one better ;D'' ??? How do I get such creativity as you guys and any other PUA's have ??

Since I was not the type of guy who would go around sayin' this stuff, it seems to me that my brain somehow tricks me into not having these kind of thoughts :X I mean, I can't remember a single Neg on my own, and I have to rely on others written on books --' !!! The question, in the end, is: How can I start thinking outside the box ? Inventing Negs on my own ? Is there any trick you could use to make it easier to Neg ?

Another question is ...

- How do I get rid of the image that I'm a nerd ( which I'm not, but people assume I am because I wear glasses ... ) if I'm daily with the people that think I am, for the last 1 and a half years ??

This aspect of my life is yet to be solved, and I don't really know how. I don't mind them thinking that I'm a nerd, I really don't. The thing is, they don't often keep me as company, and that just shows ... Then the girls might think I'm that kind of guy who is shy and introvert when I'm outgoing and fun ( I know I am, others don't even make an effort to see it and I'm better of without them, but at the same time I want to make new friends ... )

That's all ... FOR NOW !!!

Cheers,

PUAWannabe_TP