Like how do you approach a set of girls dancing on the dance floor? Do you go up and ask? Or just grind on her...like a creeper...

I need tips please!

Help a newbie.

Personally I prefer for these things to happen through just being a fun person and putting out a good vibe, and girls will end up dancing with me and our group. A hat is pretty useful in this context. If a girl steals it and puts in on it's a big IOI and you can just grab her salsa spin her around then start dancing and grinding.

But my friends who were probably the most sucessful at club game, played the numbers. They would literally go to every single group of girls in the club and ask them if they wanted to dance then immediatly start grinding if they said yes or showed any kind of IOI. For this you need pretty much no shame.

Ehh...a hat isn't really my style. I like my hair. And I used to approach the girl I want, put my hand around her waist, approach from the sides and ask her "hey would you like to dance with me?" and I look her in the eye and smile. I don't know what eye-contact means...are they just looking at me? IOI? Are they looking out for creepers? So I'm not exactly what to do when they make eye-contact.


I don't know if that's the "right" approach. Is there a better non-fail one?

i've tried this one before all you do is make sure she has seen you and say "can you dance?' and when she says yes i immediately take that for an IOI and a yes and start dancing with her. my theory is if she didn't want to dance with you she would say no to avoid any awkward creeper moments. so she had to have been interested to say yes.

you avoid the approach anxiety you normally have because it's a low risk question

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if you dont use a hat you can try sun glasses, make sure they look cheesy but fun.

ive had lots of girls take the glasses and start dancing with me

Nice. I'm totally borrowing this from you. I haven't been into dancefloor game properly for years. It was my thing when I was 19-22 but post mid-20s I prefer bar game because of the social interaction.

But this sounds much more fun than my old friend's approach of just playing the numbers and grinding up to every girl on the floor asking if want to dance with him!