Hey guys i am asking this because I am in the process of learning so I am trying to get a few opinions.

When I drink I get rid of my anxiety, I speak very well, my game skyrockets and so does my success rate. I feel like doing something and saying things after you have had a few drinks transfer to 100% sober gaming as you can relate to past experiences and still "have done it"

When I do not drink, I get approach anxiety and sometimes I let the conversation plummet slightly. I have a harder time kiss closing and gaming in general is just a whole lot harder.

Without drinking the reality is harder so I guess you HAVE to addapt in order to make your game work. But when I have had a few drinks I still feel like the confindence gained from closing transfer to my daily life.

So I am just wondering.. if you were to start all over, and had to pick the fastest way to learn. Would it be going out with or without a few drinks

Well let me ask a question. If you have difficulty picking up WITHOUT alcohol involved, don't you feel that your game would be better if you could practice on that? If you can overcome approach anxiety sober you won't have to rely on a crutch such as alcohol to be more "aloof or fun". Once you overcome your AA you won't have to worry about alcohol or anything and it will be a lot more natural.

You re right! Do you have any advice on good ways to practice day gaming?

I heard the whole perfume trick, and also asking women random questions. Any other suggestions are welcome!