So my girlfriend of over 2 years broke up with me in January. I thought that we had a good relationship and she was always wanting me to get serious with her but I was scared and didn't want to. Then one night she ended up kissing this guy that I knew she had been hanging out with some. She told me and we didn't talk for a few days but eventually I took her back. However, two weeks later she told me she wanted to break up. She ended up hanging out with that guy a couple times but then realized he was just a player and they haven't talk since.

After the break-up at first I was always begging for her back (bad idea I know now!). Eventually we hung out some and the first time it was weird because she was really cold with me. The next time she warmed up some and we kissed and stuff and then the last time we actually slept together and I stayed over her place. She would always tell me, though, that she didn't want to get back. Even when we slept together she said that. She keeps saying she just wants to be single right now and not date anyone. I told her if that's what she wants I have to move on from her. After we slept together we had this conversation about moving on, both cried a lot, she mentioned she didn't know if she was making the right choices and we said goodbye. I ended up taking down my facebook so I would stop seeing her profile which was hurting me from moving on. She noticed and called me being angry that I am deleting her from my life. I didn't answer but texted back saying it's not meant to be mean but it's what I have to do for myself. She doesn't know I took down my FB and think I just deleted her. We haven't had any contact since and its been 15 days. I don't know what to do. I feel I have no options. Any advice would be helpful. What can I do to win her back?

Additional info.

-We are both 24.
-I think she was angry because I couldn't find work for a long time and consequently couldn't afford to move close to her (she lives 1 hour away)
-I have since found a job but still nothing too great

Whoa son, 24?..

you broke up for a reason. Let it go.. it'll never be the same again it'll never be good..Once you've broken up the chemicals in the brain change, she doesn't want you any-more she has made up her mind and it's over, son... She slept with you because she felt bad, she's emotional right now and she probably in some respect regrets it. Not because it's sex, but because she ultimately wants you to let go.. because she probably cant. But knows she wants too..

You've got to know the things that prevented it from working out the first time are still there and will come out 2 weeks/6months/5 years from now.

It's gunna be your own prison.

Prevent this

Embrace the concept of non-compatibility. You both are simply not compatible...





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