So I literally have a girl that just fell asleep in my bed next to me. She came over, forst "date" watched a movie had dinner that I cooked she is totaly into me. We made out couple times during the movie, talked a bit about sex and I was horny as hell.

After the movie I work on some more comfort (i like to move a bit slow to avoid LMR) it worked i literally got her up the couch lead her to my bedroom make out, and tell her to get naked. She is complying left and right!! But when we r both naked Im playing w her and I just lost all interest.

I have no idea why... well i think I do, I have problems concentrating. Im not worried about my performance or anything like that. I just cant REMAIN in the moment... I have a steady girl that I can have sex no problem. But when I have sex w anyother girl while im "sober" i just cant concentrate. I semm to "need" a couple drinks and get some sort of tunnel vision to be able to fuck someone.

Dunno how to deal with this I dont want her thinking "he needs to be drunk to fuck me" although its kinda the truth, I dont need to be drunk but I need something to help me concentrate i.e. couple drinks and not let my mind wander on other things. Its very annoying cause I like the girl, Im horny, but I just cant get it up at the very last minute.

Any ideas, advice?

By the way, this girl is so into me that she feels like we had sex, so im not worried about getting her bad in bed or loosing my chance. Like I said I usualy work slow towards sex so by the time we r in bed LMR is usually non existent.

I just gave her some bullshit excuse and she bough it (i think).