Okay so social circle has a lot to do with meeting people, yup..


So I have a small social circle and one of the people I hang with on my typical friday night drink sesh has a bunch of friends. Anyway, she was a bartender at a bar we went to. We had great conversation and had fun and we left. What would be the right way to add her on facebook and such?? I can easily find her on my friend facebook but would it be creepy to add her, lets just say I am good at navigating facebook. She isn't necessarily as sarge but just a friend, she is chill.

She also had a pretty cute co-worker I would like to talk to. We talked to an teased her a bit. But normally as it goes we leave and they still working. What would be the appropriate way to approach this situation as we don't normally see these girls very often..


I know this may not be the normal way of picking up but at this point I will take what I can get. I am just looking for solid advice to talk to these hb's on facebook without looking like a creep


thanks!

thanks!

I've been in the situation before and I usually message them first. There needs to be a reason to send a message. whether it be to invite her to a social event or something. I have always called it out to (the creaping thing) that way it's less creepy. (strange how that works) This is a message I had sent a girl I met as a customer where I tend bar that I never got a number from and I didn't want to wait to see.


Me:
Hey You!Yeah I did some creeping and tracked you down. I never mentioned to you that I'm having a party on the 14th. My freinds band will be playing http://www.toddbryantband.com/ if you're free you should stop by. Bring a friend if you'ld like.

Your friendly bartender,

Sxxxxxxx

Her
Haha... Yes, you did do some creeping. How'd you find me? I think there are a million (name) on FB.

The party sounds fun. I'd come if I were going to be around... I have a medical conference at the Mayo Clinic that day! Thanks for the invite though!

I'm sure I'll see you at (bar) again sometime soon!

Lxxxxxxx


It's not perfect but it opens the line of comnication beside for randomly running into each other. It's a bit more direct which is alpha like.

She may add you as a friend at this point or you could add her.

LET ME KNOW IF THAT HELPS.