Quick info, Im 17 and shes around my age....So i requested this girl on Facebook, talked very little, she posted a status on FB saying "I lost my contacts need numbers inbox mee! x3" So i Inboxed her saying...
"[My Number] Dont be a Stranger!" (Stranger is Commonly used in my state)

Anyways 2 Days later,[Today] she texts me. Heres the convo, need some help and feedback!

Her-Hey its [Her Name]

Me- Hey, Which [Name] i know alot of them.

Her- [Her FULL name]

Me- Ohh that cute random girl from facebook! Whats upp.

Her- Im just some Random girl?Im sure your the one that requested to be my friend Mhm!

Me-You were just Cute so i Figured id give you a shot!

Her-Thanks.

Me-Welcome. [Idk.. lol]

Her- You dont talk much, Bye

Me- Im not gunna write you something deep yet, Im just talking as much as you do!

Her-Did i say too??? No Okay then! Lmao

Me- Lol not Attractive, I Appreciate you Tryin though. Bye Sweetie :]

Her-That's fine with me you ahve mad girls up your ass. One less won't kill you. Bye Hunnies. [Owww Burn hahaha, Oh well!]

Me- Cant Help it :]

Her- I guess not :]

And i didnt text back, probably and never will. Unless you guys think theres hope?

Soo yeahh, dont wanna mess it up,[To late lol] though i wouldnt care but shes a HB9, and anyways the help would help me learn. Feedback!? =]

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RAFC !

Wow-this' a tough one since it's so rambled and a bit disorganized.

Really,I see that you're over reaching here.

I really dont see this going anywhere.

It happens to me often on Facebook.Happened twice in the last 2 days.

I Facebook chatted with those 2 girls.

The vibe went the same way as yours:not too promising.

I can obviously offer insights & technique here but I just dont see you recovering to salvage this.

Not that you'd messed up,but I have a hunch that you should just abort this mission.

Not the advise you were looking for but...

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It wasnt but its fine, not sure if you saw what i Just Updated in it, because were texting as i write this. But i havnt yet because im sure i can comeback from this. Just need the right thing to say!

Thanks though!

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RAFC !

"Me-You were just Cute so i Figured id give you a shot!"

Great start man. However, she tested you here and it ended in an epic failure. I would have knocked her off the imaginary pedestal by saying, "Of course I did, it is wise to keep tabs on the girls that are stalking me "


"Me- Im not gunna write you something deep yet, Im just talking as much as you do!

Her-Did i say too??? No Okay then! Lmao

Me- Lol not Attractive, I Appreciate you Tryin though. Bye Sweetie :]"

See that shit inflated her ego to the size of Charlie Sheen's prostate. Now she believes that she is higher value than you. She believes that you are nothing unique. I liked what you came back with because it was speaking the truth. Yet, she is still on her high horse. When she said "Okay then! Lmao" I would have said "I clearly remember you climbing up into my bedroom Edward Cullen style, placing a deep and lovingly message to write something deep and meaningful, then scattering back down that tree. You have ninja skills, so I was slightly impressed."

Instead she was still on her high horse so when you told her that wasn't attractive behaviour, she became turned off because it was much more easier to do that, rather than admit it.

This interaction could have gone a lot more differently with playful banter. However, you should also remind yourself that although you may have had sex with this girl, you wouldn't have made her into your girlfriend. I certainly wouldn't.

@Adamtaste-You made some good points.

Most important point you made was the imbalance in value.

Once you have the target feeling that they have higher socil value that the guy,it's a downward spiral from there.

It happened to me twice yesterday.

I could've recovered(maybe)but it was a bit too late.

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Hmm So how could i tell what her value for me is? How could i have improved it? Maybe some examples could set me to the right mindset, thanks for the feedback though!

I figured saying "I appreciate you trying" would DLV her and make me seem higer Value, and i think she DHV'ed me by saying "You have mad girls up your ass" but not sure! Anyways thanks guys!

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RAFC !

Didn't look so bad. She clearly is attracted to you to even bother texting you if it was really just a random local facebook add. I think she was probably just being playful in a slightly conceited way. You didn't DLV at all, in fact, I think you had pretty solid game in this. I doubt youre screwed.


I'd just come back at the "I guess not :]" with "Yeah, its a curse really. I'll be hanging out with my friends and jessica alba will be calling BEGGING me to chill with her. It gets old!"