Alright. So i met this chick and i F closed her and we really hit it of. next day we were very close, played with eachothers hands, etc so it wasnt a one night stand. Then she kept texting me everyday and such and everything went fine. Now this girl lives in another town a few hours away so i cant really go see her that easily. Now a family member of hers died a few days ago and she is really depressed but she still tries to talk to me and be as nice as she can which proves she really likes me or she wouldnt give a shit about me. I know it might sound wrong to think about gaming at a situation like this but this is beyond gaming because the game for me is over once i really connect with a girl (i dont turn into an afc tough). Now i want to support her and make her feel better but i dont know if its a good idea to talk to her about it and ask her those things. I show i care but i dont get into deep conversations because from an NLP point of view she might connect me with her bad feelings so whenever i talk to her i try to keep a positive attitude. but i dont want o be the shrink or the "friend" who she tells her problems too but im not sure if it still works that away if we have attraction, because we certainly do, is it okay then to listen to her problems? normaly i dont get involved with girls problems but this is a serious matter and she kinda gives signals that she wants to talk and i always leave her feeling better at the end of our conversation that she was when we begin talking. guys , i really wanna help her but i dont want to lose her either? do you have any suggestions? Any Do`s and Dont`s ?