Re-posting old question which i deleted because it was difficult to read as i typed it in a hurry..sorry

im new to this pua thing so, i really need help to game this Vietnamese girl which is in the same class as me there is actually two but lets focus on one here and i will make another thread for the other girl later. I spoke to this girl a few times in class, ask general questions and questions regarding the unit.

I want you guys to anaylse the following scenarios and tell me whether shes interested or not and if she is then how to take it further.

*i was outside class and i see her walking towards the class and instead of going inside, she comes and stands next to me n we tlk for 2 minutes. I say something she hits me, it was kina hard lol

*This other day before a test she asks me an abbreviation, i ask her for a pen and write it on her hand..she didn't seem to mind.

*A few weeks ago during break..So, i sit next to her she is busy with her notes and stuff i take her hand and start running my hands on hers i play wit her hands and she doesn't seem to mind until i tried to pull her bracelet out of her hand that's when she pulled away her hand lol


but here is the weird part,we had our mid exams and once your done with the paper you can leave. I finished mine and left class and was waiting near the stairs after a minute she comes and stands next to me. We talk and she tells me how bad she did the test and her bro is gona kill her (RIP in advance to you sweetie) we talk and i go like so,,how old are you? and her reply.......... Bye, Bye, Bye and walks down the stairs Bye Bye Bye Bye..........

Most of the signs you get are typical reaction from girl:
- Hitting you hard isnt an IOIs, it's Vietnamese girl habit ( I'm vietnamese )
- She let you write on her hand, not really one either
- She let you play with her hands = possibly an IOI but she was busy taking note so we cant really make this clear

BUT she did pull her hand away ---> meaning you didnt build enough trust and comfort. Try some forced IOI methods on her and let us know the results. ^^

For the sake of OP and others, what are some forced IOI methods?

Thanks alot. Can you please tell me how to build comfort and trust with her and also whats forced IOI?

If your veit then you can help me explain this other girl veit girl as well, she is also in the same class i spoke to her twice on the tram she is always with her friend who is veit as well and before her stop i asked if shes free on saturday, her friend asked me are you asking her out on a date and i said maybe and the girl didnt reply and there stop came so they had to go.

The next day i see her on the tram, i go up to her talk for a while and tell her she didn't answer me yesterday and once again no reply this time she was alone..is she shy or she doesn't trust or she is not attracted to me???

how do i game this chick??

1. Ask
2. Her
3. Out

*Now

100% agree

Update

During break today, i said hi to her and she was like whats up i said nothing much was she trying to open up a convo with me??? and then i left class and asked my friend to watch her behavior when we go back to class.

Once we are in i see her busy with her phone with head phones in her ear. I talk to my friend and then go and approach this girl and guy who were sitting next to her and ask them whether they are bro and sis and it makes the veit girl laugh and then go up to another girl and ask her about her glasses.
My friend told me she seemed annoyed when i was talking to the other girls.

i was talking to my friends which were behind me. So i turned my chair towards them i.e facing viet girl and i loked into her eyes here and there for long periods and she looked a few times but with a straight face (the WTF you looking at look lol) and quickly looked the other way.

What's up is just Wats up. No big deal. Even if she wants to start convo or not, doesn't matter. You start convo ASAP! Go and do it, its better anyway than doing all the strategic observations on her reactions towards you. Even if girl is attracted, she isn't going to sho it in every single move she does in her life. BTW Deangelo said"Attraction is not a choice" So go and get her!(in your case ask her out! and get the number if you still don't have it)

Good luck.

thanks everyone for all your help..the thing is she never leaves class during break always inside class going through notes or using her phone. I am sure she wont feel comfortable if i ask her to hangout wit me n give me her number in front of others. So how do i get her out of class, during break to the empty hall for some time alone??? and what do i exactly say because from what i have read you never ask a girl out on a date.

If I was you, this would be a general long term view for your situation.

I would keep flirting/kino non stop with her throughout the whole semester. You don't need a relationship with a girl that's in your class, it's almost like a relationship at work. eeeh. Keep it playful and flirt/kino the hell out of her, keep talking to other girls in the class. Be the pimp you are.

Then and only then when the semester is almost over, say last week or so, you go hard. I mean this is the make it or break it time for the closing portion, since you've been doing your kino/flirting throughout, closing should relatively come easy.

Make it as natural as you can. You can even explain the situation that you weren't cool with having a relationship during class, but now that the semester is over, you would like to get to know her more, and that she needs to come and hang out with you. Your the pimp of all trades, tell her how it is.

And if she doesn't seems interested, move on, more than enough viet girls, girls in this world.

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Thanks..but the problem is we only have 2 weeks of this semester left lol i will see her two more tuesdays and i wana ask for her number this coming tuesday i have spoken to her a few times and yes i talk to almost everyone in class i feel like the alpha male of the class. I go up to girls talk to them so yes i am the pimp lol but now i dont have much time i want to get her number by this tuesday so can u please tell me how i get her out of class and talk to her and eventually get her number?? Thanks.

Don't put to much thought into it. stop it right now.

Let her know the situation straight up.

From what I've read, tell her, "Hey listen, now that class is coming to an end, I have more time and would like to take you out sometime, I find you very interesting."

And if she's into it. You simply say "Cool, give me your number, and here's mine."

Don't wait to call, screw that. Call her and escalate, kino fast. Be playful.

Your job at this point is to find out if she's interested in you, out of the classroom environment.

If she is great(everything else pua related should fall in place), if not move on. No need to waste time on a girl not interested.

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And also, try and bounce her right after class when you get the number.

If she gives you an excuse about being busy that day already, good you get the first rejection out of the way. She'll more than likely not reject you the next time you set up a meeting.

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Thanks alot for all the input jim it really means alot. The problem is i really like this girl and also how to kino and escalate and when exatly do i do it? oh and she also has a friend in our class anything i could do to make the friend help me??

No problem at all homie, check your pm.

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