So I ran into this cute girl (she's only 18 but mkay) at my studentcorps. She was behind the bar there, we had some flufftalk, attraction and value are mostly taken care off, maybe could have gone for some more comfort but anyhow...
She told a story about she didnt eat fish and impersonated a fish being caught in a net. That evening I got some IOI's, she actually touched me on my shoulder before I touched her and it went quite smooth overall.
Later that night (like 3-4hrs later) we went to a club and there I kinda... Screwed up. The dj sucked and some other stuff just caused me to not enjoy the party that much. I opened her up in a 2set (she was with a GF) and had some flufftalk which went okay but I should have left later because the rest of the night wasnt really adding anything to it as far as gaming her goes.
She's from my studentcorps so I just looked up her number and I am trying to figure out where I went wrong because I am really not getting any good replies lol.

The day after the party around 15:00:
Me: Are all girls stupid? (We had a talk about female classmates vs guy classmates and we concluded girls are stupid)

Instant reply:
HB: There are a few exceptions... Who are you? I dont know this number>

Like 15 minutes later:
Me: Omg, you told me the best fish-story ever and you already forgot?

Like an hour later I think it was:
HB: Oh haha :p

Me: So, tell me about the exceptions?

There she flaked. So yeah that sucked. I decided to try something again 2 days later:

Around 17:00
Me: At the gym they called me a criminal today What do you think, should I grow my hair?

Around 20:30
HB: You should know. Maybe long hair will make you look like one of the spice girls, a criminal would be better

Around 00:00 (I actually got the message quite late because I was busy that evening)
Me: Nice, then I'll go with the mel b look. Then we'll be tje jokers at *club* Dubstep-night wont happen. We could meet in the city after my tests, if it gets warmer. (On the night at the club we decided to go to a dubstep night at a local club, she immediatly asked if her GF could join, so I was just referring to that and trying to convert it in a meet in the city instead of a club because I really sucked gaming her at a club-environment)

She just responded:
Dude, I'm asleep.

I was like... Okay fuck you and responded with:
Tip: cellphone off

I just was a bit flabbergasted, it didnt look like a shittest to me but more like a "LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE" text

I think my textgame wasnt that bad actually, the night at the club was and I certainly didnt recover from it with textgame. Where did I went wrong, the club? Too less comfort? Shouldnt have just looked up her number?

get The Ultimate Text Guide. it will help.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

Thanks for the reply, I´ll look into it.

So you think the texting part screwed it up? I think the two worst parts where the clubbing and just looking up her number (altho I have gotten away with that).

Dude i definately think you need to build on the comfort, although with the fish story and the IOI's it sounds like a good start and she opened up, or maybe it was the booze? I'd say keep up with the text game, then drop into connversation about going out sometime and get her to open up again, making her feel closer to you. Once you're at the right point I suggest you use Robert Green's seduction strategy 'Isolate the victim' (The Art Of Seduction - chapter 15)

Hey man, thanks for your toughts. Think its the comfort, and tbh I find it hard to build up in text-game! Probably should aim for more comfort in my day/nightgame. It was no booze and I was kinda surprised in a positive way at first indeed.
Not sure if I should keep up the texting. She flaked once and responded like a bitch twice. If I try to open on her again I'll become needy. I actually tried to make the transition from the dubstep-night we agreed on to a date in the city but it didn't work out
I hope I'll see her at my studentcorps or something, then I'll just try to create a connection between us and focus on comfort before I start worrying about attraction or routines again.
I'll look into the strategy, sounds interesting!

Thnx again mate.

@Stendhal: I did look into it and step 15 looks like a decent one. But I am not going to follow those 24 steps, there is some weird stuff between it man Ill try to isolate her, kino lightly and give her an emotion-rollercoaster and focus on comfort and connection. Not sure if I should try to get a date out of it next time, but we'll see.

70+ views and 2 guys replied? Cmon dont be shy people

afaik she isn't really interested in you, think that's all there is to it

Why would that be all there is to it. Turning girls on is all what gaming is about I just created a little challenge for myself

Any other toughts guys?

thing is atraction isn't a choice, now that can be for good or for bad, here it's working for bad

i suggest you read some david de angelo stuff, it's good for these situations

so, imagine you're a special product right, and anybody who'd be able to have would have great benefits because you deliver great emotions etc

how would you make her feel that way towards you

I dont really understand what you mean with attraction working for bad. I think I leaned to much towards the attraction-side and forgot about the comfort-side. The sweet spot is in the middle.
And I'm the prize indeed, as we all are. But I think I need to work on comfort a little more before I can move on to qualification. I'll think about how I can get her feel the right way about me, thanks buddy!
And I know David De Angelo, but its a little generic. Got anything specific in mind? My personal favorites are TD, Lovedrop, Carlos Xuma I think.

I picked up Double Your Dating btw, I'll certainly look at it but its a whopping 148 pages

Your response to the spice girls text was WAAAYY to long. Next time she texts you be like "whos this?"

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

This one? Yeah I kinda figured but decided to go with it anyway.
I like the "who's this" reply, but I dont count on her texting me

i meant that atraction not being a choice can work in your favour or the other way around mate

deff, a balanced man will always triumph, specially in a relationship

np np, glad it helped in any way


David DeAngelo:
David DeAngelo - 77 Laws Of Success With Women And Dating
David DeAngelo Double Your Dating 2nd edition
Chapter 4: How To Use Communication
And Humor To Attract Women ................ 64


check out these parts, they're not specific material but sure help your inner game i guess, and methinks that's very important so good luck

PS: Mystery is my favorite btw, but that's because i sing and his way of speaking is awsome, i tend to focus on that a lot

@SkyGroove: Double your dating is nice stuff man

I saw the chick tonight. Just kinda ignored her during the evening and I was just enjoying the evening with different people (guys and gals) so probably got some value out of it. Eventually she greeted me with some sort of wave, I nodded. Nice, Im not dead to her So at the end of the evening right before she left she was talking to somebody I knew, I noticed a little scar on her jaw and we talked about the dog who bit her and I made the transition to handling animals and told her about how I fell of a horse (true story) because I knew she was into horses. Talked a bit about her tragus-piercing she seems to have gotten today, a GF of her had gotten the same piercing. They had the same earrings so I commented on that. She had to go, was wet (just water lol, some fighting and fun had taken place earlier tonight) and after she hinted that she had to go I soon told her she had to go otherwise she would catch a cold. Had one or 2 kino's, think I didnt do too bad on building comfort.

Next time i might mix in some attraction again.