Hi, I'm a good looking guy (not conceited I've just been told by many people) and around 5'6 which I know is short but my looks pretty much make up for that for most girls. The problem is I just can't get laid. Whether it be wrong timing, or bad luck, or rejection, or if the girl has a boyfriend, the fact remains that it hasn't happened in a while. What I'd really like is a girlfriend. My situation when I was in my mid teens was that I was getting a lot of female attention but wasn't ready for it and was almost oblivious to the opportunities I had with girls. Then as time went on and I became more into girls, they slightly went off me. They were still moments when I'd miss opportunities but less frequently. At this point I'm nearly 20 and just do not feel wanted by the vast majority of women out there even though I know for a fact, that I'm worth a lot. I've used negs, and qualifying and spoke to girls in the street (not much though) but it keeps on amounting to nothing. How can I reverse this image of me in other people's minds as the good looking guy who can't get girls and actually start getting some social proof? I know I've been an idiot in the past, but I don't think I deserve this as a result. Anyway, I'd love to hear your comments!

you're hank moody, come on

stop trying so hard. if your trying that hard women sense it and it makes you look desperate. instead of trying to get leaid just go out, have fun, and talk to people without all the crap

Yeah just say hi and ask a relevant question to the situation, too many guys go up to women trying too hard to be someone there not when all they need to do to start a conversation is talk about something easy like where you from, what you doing this weekend. Women are cool, they will talk to a guy whose friendly even if they don't know them, depending on the bird of course, if shes having a good or bad day, if shes a chilled friendly girl or a bitch! lol depends on the person and circumstance which is why you cant worry about rejection- it probably wont even be your fault.

Work on building comfort. You seem to be getting attraction. But you may be putting off some icy vibe that keeps them from loosening up enough to be sexual.

Tell a joke, touch her, give a compliment. Something that tells her it's ok to relax.

Um just a point here I just thought of myself today!
How many times have you actually ASKED a girl to go out with you? I've been doing all this for 5 months and got so fucked off with no girl being in my arms even though i did all my homework and followed all the guidelines but i realized that without actually asking her to go for a coffee there's no possible chance of a close of any kind without her leading!
man i'm such a dick! i got my daughter today but i am going out there when i got my time and be that sexual animal open, dhv story, attract, all that stuff - then just ask her at the right moment when the momentum and attraction is high! duh!

Pretty good advice pierce007, one more question: I posted this the day after a party I went to the previous night where a hot chick (probably about a HB8-8.5) asked me what I would say to her if she didn't have a boyfriend. He wasn't with her at the party and she was letting me hold her and she was dancing with other guys. Negs weren't really having much effect on her but I wasn't sure how to answer that question. She asked it in a way, like: show me what you've got and I tried to be mysterious and said, "I'd say a lot of things". Then she said "Do you think I look good?" Then me being Hank Moody and all, I refused to give in to giving her a compliment. I was pretty drunk so can't remember what I said but it probably wasn't the right answer. Then she had to leave cause she threw up from being too drunk lol but I got her facebook details. Any advice on how I could've answered those questions? She didn't seem like she was asking in an insecure way but more in a testing me way to see how I'd respond.

Being Hank Moody and all you MUST give her a compliment, a sincere one! a smooth one. I'd say: I think youre drunk...and gorgeous