Hi guys!

So I have a question, is it possible to make a woman attracted to you a second time?


Well, I met this girl a year ago. We kinda hit it off right away, but she had a boyfriend. We made out two or three times at parties, but nothing more until she was single, which happened a month or so after we met. Ever since we met she has acted like she is not interested at all, and that the breaking up had nothing to do with me. The next month we spent almost every weekend together and even met a few times during the week, and we had a lot of fun. We also started having sex. She now was showing a little more interest, and we had a great time, and hadn't I moved away, I'm sure we would have been in a relationship.

Then i moved away for 3 months for the summer, and even though we tried seeing eachother, it didnt happen, so it all just was forgotten. We saw eachoter a few times during the fall, but nothing other then a few sleepovers happened (no sex, just kissing).

Then, a month ago or so, we startet chatting quite a lot again, and since then we've slept at eachothers 5 or six times, still no sex, and she is acting really hard to get. We've kissed on the occasions where she has been enjoying alcohol. But since she it took quite a time for her to start kissing and even longer time for her too have sex with me the first time, I have tried to be patient. If I bring it up she says something like "we need to start from scratch" or "you have to be patient".

So, what I wonder is if it is possible to get that same attraction from her again. How do I re-sparkle it. And is the waiting to have sex-thing real or is she saying she doesn't want to have sex with me?? As I said, she has been playing really hard to get the whole time.

What are your thoughts??


Thx

Listen to me. Give PLEASURE/SEX. That's it. Don't try to get her approval towards you, get her approval towards the pleasure you can offer. Be persistent, keep pushing. But everytime she rejects, do not get mad/sad OR even laugh it off. Only way to counter her rejection is by being persisitent and then it will be as if she never rejected you. It only becomes real once you respond to it. Once she calls you a creep/pervert, that's when you'll know you're starting to seduce her (if she's even that difficult.) Being called those things is a test to scare you off.

Examples of giving pleasure:
-holding her hands
-gazing at her with your head tilted w/ a smile
-rubbing her back
-touching her neck
-hugging and giving a compliment like, "You smell nice..."

Avoid kissing her unless you two are isolated. Attraction dies because we sometimes become selfish and only seek her affection. We don't see the girl as a sexual being anymore. We still got that childish feeling of wanting to be loved whether it's from our grandmas, moms, sisters, etc. Once you seek her affection, you're beginning to sell yourself, not the pleasure and when you get rejected based on selling yourself, you get really down.

The only thing that should stop you is a restraining order.