Hi everyone, i am new here and i've been kinda interested in this whole PUA buisness lol

Anyways, i am pretty confident in my skills, and looks, HOWEVER, here's my problem.

I live in Toronto, Canada and it is very multicultural, and no matter how good my game is, and how cool, confident, smooth i can get, i get the feeling that sometimes the women i am attracted to (usually white/European due to the fact that i was raised in Europe since i was born and moved to Canada when i was a teenager for school) will not give me a chance cuz of the color of my skin (thats how it seems to me).

I am not white or black or Indian brown, i am middle eastern, i've been told olive skinned, whatever that means. On the other hand, i am 6'4, and my body is decent as i work out quite frequently.

This issue ALWAYS brings down my confidence and therefore my whole game and i dont know what to do about it, especially now more than ever since my long term relationship ended not too long ago and i am trying to move on.

Any thoughts?
Thank you.

How many of those girls have you talk to? Your probably generalizing too much.

I had the exact same way of thinking when it came to asian girls but as I opened more of them, I figured there not all like that.

The problem is you and the thoughts inside your head, it is self defeating. I get the feeling that in the past, a girl or another had raised this issue with you and it got to you. And now every similar chicks you meet/game these thoughts come rushing back.

You can't change your race, just own it and be proud of it. Mentally train yourself to accept yourself and love yourself (see inner game forums).

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Thank you for the replies. Yes i realize it is something internal and i am gonna start working on it ASAP

Stop trying to spit game like you're trying to sell a person on the street a $10,000 piece of paper. It doesn't matter how smooth you are, it's all about being sexual and escalating.

I'm half black but I usually only have a thing for little white and Asain chicks. Every now and then I think "how the hell is this girl attracted to me?" I think this is because my mom is white and both my half sisters are too. The majority of people I've been around have been white. To me, the thought of my skin tone being attractive seems strange.

What do I do about this? Nothing! I don't think about it one bit! Forget about your skin color, man. You need to be the best form of yourself that you can be in order to run efficient game, and this can't be done if you're hung up about your body.

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