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| djatc | PostPosted: Fri Apr 15, 2011 12:39 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Fri Apr 08, 2011 12:53 am Posts: 11 | | Yesterday I was putting the info I've read up on here into effect. There was a job expo at my school and there was a big (3 hours+) line just for one of the booths. Anyway I was in front of this girl, so I opened with a situational "Yup this is the line for the booth" and kept asking her questions so she'd open up. Just talking to a girl is a huge step for me. My conversational skills do suck a bit at the moment so it was hard to get the ball rolling but once we got to talking we got into a few deep subjects (religion, family, etc) she initiated.
Couple things I've learned:
Not all conversation has to be deep (I made a bet with her that this line will take more than an hour with the loser buying the winner a sandwich)
Don't say she is attractive right away without her earning it (something she enjoys that you enjoy, certain reasons why she dresses a certain way)
People have a big outer shell that has to first be penetrated (hence the comfort phase of PUA I guess) but once you get through it you can autopilot a lot of conversation.
Kino more than high 5's (I never kino so I guess it's a start)
Get the number even if she has a boyfriend.... I was supposed to get it because she was gonna text me some good bands.
Anyway I'll keep checking out more material, I did approach another girl but didn't land because I was in a rush. It makes things so much easier if I don't care about the results, and don't get oneitis.
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| PUA Kenny | PostPosted: Fri Apr 15, 2011 1:50 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Apr 11, 2008 3:21 am Posts: 2124 Website: http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/ Yahoo Messenger: jomo_loc@yahoo.com Location: NYC | | Good job bro';you've made the seduction God proud(lol).
I have no critique at all in your game as a newbie.
You're very right about not all convo' has to be deep.
In fact,the initial-approach convo' should not be deep,but ligh & fluffy.
The most anti-seduction tone is deep & heavy unless you're dishing out an opener on Astrology or something abstact that women love. _________________ Most active PUA blog in the community since 2009.
https://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com ... arly-2022/
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