i was thinking to go into a cold read like saying "i can already tell you get alot of attention from guys but..." what can you say to distinuish yourself without being cheesy and make it seem accidental....
any ideas?

Why does it have to seem accidental?

Just tell her you were walking past, you noticed her, and had to come tell her she's really cute. Then introduce yourself and have a conversation. It's really simple!

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Couldn't agree more with this. Chris, when you state your intentions it really adds interest. What would you rather have happen:

Cold read her/say something indirect and have her thinking "Interesting, I wonder..but what does he want?"

OR

State your direct intention "Just have to say you're cute" and have her thinking, "This guy doesn't bullshit, he's completely honest with me."

From what I understand, cold reads are supposed to be very direct and honest. Let her know right off the bat what you think of her.

If you want to disqualify her after a bit, you could say something like "Oh, oops! I just realized that you must think I'm hitting on you, saying you're cute and what not". You could follow up with "Forget I ever said that!" This would also cement the idea into her head (when told not to think about something, it is almost impossible).

Now you have the choice to continue being honest about your intentions (jumping back to your previous flirtatious state could trigger a regress of the emotional state she was in when you first complimented her- regressions are usually more powerful than the initial feeling). OR you could start acting like she isn't anything special and be non-flirtatious (she now has it cemented in her head that you think she is cute, and she must be wondering why you aren't ACTING like you think she's cute).

Depending on what you know about the girl by this point of the conversation, you may want to use the second option and then use the first option to trigger a regression of her emotional state.

The second option could also prove powerful in combination with Mystery's line about beauty being common, while a great outlook and energy is rare. Now she knows that even though you think she's cute, you aren't impressed. She also knows what you value in a person. Follow up with a question about her personal out look and she will now have a chance to impress you and conform to what you think is special. If she does this, rewarding her with SOME flirtatious attitude would be good implementation of cat-string theory.

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You know your terminology.

i open with a direct opener by the way i was thinkig to say that later

Approach her and be real about your intent and you will have NO problem standing out from other guys.

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